Kenyan Man Living in the US Abandons Wife and Three Kids in Kenya after Tricking Them to a Holiday

Let's hope that the following Incidents did NOT happen while tho Couple Stayed Together in the USA:

Mwanamke Kukubebea Kichwa wewe Mwanaume; na Hata Kukutisha, Kukutesa, Kukuitia Askari kiholela; Kukunyonya na-Child Support (hata Baada ya Kumsimamia na Kumsaidia Masomoni).

I hope the Foregoing Incidents did NOT happen between this Couple.

@guest1, I have been in a situation that you are talking about and I understand how this women can take advantage. I do not even know why this should be news on mwakilishi

I have so many questions over the uncertainty of this story but I will leave my curiosity out of it. To begin with, why can't this mama just get herself and her kiddos back to the US?..hint..if these kids are American citizens, there is an American embassy in Kenya...

Can we get the whole story before we contribute. What if we contribute and find that they cannot come back kwa sababu ya makaratasi? For something like this to happen, there must have been a "fight"going on in the family. What if the woman was on the wrong as Guest1 says? If the man was on the wrong, then count me in to help. I have seen kids of some of our fellow Kenyans behaving badly. Imagine your own daughter brings her boyfriend to your house and disrespects you in front of anybody?Don't just tell me it's the problem of the parents not bringing the kids well. For those who live in USA know very well that, if a woman or a kid calls the cops and claims that you insulted them leave alone slapping them, you go to jail and it will be uphill to proof otherwise.

This women from Kenya so useless, lazy and taking advantage over men. They use the system to oppress men and spoil their records. I would do the same. Leave them I. Kenya and hide my brother. For as long as they can't serve you court papers you should be good.. wanake wa Kenya bure kabisa

There is a lot unsaid here which does not help the case. How could the woman not know the ticket was one way? This couple must have been having serious problems. I am not condoning what the man has done but there is a lot than meets the eye. Kenyan families are facing serious challenges and because we are a closed society that does not discuss family matters in the open, we will continue to witness such desperate acts. I am glade we are not reading about a violent situation as has happened in the past

@Mtalii and @Baite. I agree with you 100%.

There is always two sides to the story.Until we have/get conclusive and irrefutable evidence on what transpired;and lead the man to leave his family in Kenya, all is speculation.Having said this,I also take the position that it was a cowardice act.
Is that how a"ndume" acts? I surely hope not,even if madam was very offending in this union called marriage.Iam also curious as to how old the kids are.My take is that they are pretty young,and if that is the case how were they supposed to sustain themselves assuming that he did not want madam to supposedly enjoy his hard earned money.Which by the way when you are married its for both of you irrespective of who brings in the lions share.
For those who are waiting to unleash a tirade of insults,please think of the innocent kids.
That spirit of harambee that is working to help mama na watoto is commendable.Put yourself in their situation.Wouldn't you want someone to come to the rescue?
I also suspect that what precipitated to this action has been brewing for a while. I am not a marriage counselor ,but Its pretty much common sense to nip your problems in the bud before they become uncontrollable wild bush.And whether the union is savable ,is for the two to decide...What is a deal breaker to you may be a joke to me.
By the way, I have seen this "movie" before.By way of Nigeria.

Heh I hope she gets back here and y'all know what will be next if she doesn't have a heart of Gold to forgive him and take him back. Good luck to both of them on the road ahead, they will need it .

This case has left lots of questions. However I consider this man as good. Some men have done worse like killing wife and kids when the wife become devils. This looks like those kind of women who solely depend on their men but give him hell. What kind of a responsible working woman would be stranded in her country of birth? She has no account? Think before you contribute for her to get back to US. If the guy is pushed to the edge and God forbid he kills them, the blame will be on you.

Does this woman have makaratasi, na kama ni hivo alipata hio makarakatasi kupitia kwa mumeo, Nimeona mengi hapa marikani, Hawa kina mama hunawaleta hapa, napatia makaratasi na masomo na watoto.Wengi wao wanakua watibaji wadogo (nurse) wakati huo, wanasahahu njia waliopitia kufika paali pa mapesa mengi sana. Sasa wanamea mapembe halafu wanaaza matusi kwa mumeo, wanaenda inje wanarudi husiku wa manane, huku unauliza mpenzi ulikuwa wapi, hata majibu hakuna sasa ukiongeza maneno anaita Askari.. sasa maisha ya dhuruma imieanza na kijana mwenyewe ndio atachomeka all the time.

Huyu mjomba Hakuua mtu, Alipeleka huyo mama nyumbani alipomtoa. Watoto ni wanamarikani na hawatadhaharika Mama aende kwenye ukurugenzi wa marikani huko Nairobi watatumikia watoto, na kama mama hako na makaratasi harudi huku aendeshe maisha ya kibinafsi. Wacheni kushurutisha waliosababisha maisha bora na afya zuri huku Marikani na kwengineo.

Inshalla

my first thought was on the kids. the whole story is not adding up.

Until we as women stop keeping up appearances especially with some African men who think they can get away with anything this things will continue to happen. I supported the father of my kids go to school, thereafter he started his cassanova lifestyle and is in his 50s,abused us,abandoned us took away our means of transportation, and prior was coming home whenever he wanted to show up coz he already had been seeing a Hawa. As a woman I decided to get away and he knew we had left after days. I traveled miles away by bus and train with my toddlers. Within 8 months to a year I managed to get a car, oncall job and my own apartment. Prayers, resilience, overcoming attitude, kids motivation, surrounding yourself with positive beings and hardwork pays. The cultural ways of staying with an abuser must stop for the sake of saving our children....just because it was ok then, it is never ok now. Any woman reading this please know you can make it especially if you focus on your kids.

This may be a scam to milk millions from diaspora

These GoFundMe ladies or Susan herself should provide her Kenyan phone number.I want to send something directly to the children.

Most of the African men cannot handle the USA coz they wanna have multiple partners without having been caught and do not also want to take care of the kids coz they believe they r KINGS. .....Women want to be respected but insulting women and abusing will not help. Hapa ngambo sote sawa lets stop insults and talk facts. Alot is not been addressed about the African immigrant communities......

This poor guys must have gone through hell .in the states so making it simple itstead of murder he took the gal back to the mother ,he could have thought otherwise and we could be talking different story now. So let's act while they are both alive

When going to Kenya to vacation, people buy return tickets. Something does not add up

Does this lady have relatives in Kenya? I hope her mother, father, sisters, brothers, uncles & aunties. I feel for the kids.

Hehehehe diasporas western stories as usual???Our culture as Africans allows men to marry another wife so if he had one on the side that's not a problem as long as he is taking care of the 1st especially the kids.Kwani hii bibi haikuwa inafanya kazi???Mayb she torchered n mistreated the dude like 90% of women do in diaspora???For a man n I mean I man to behave this way something mite have bin happening behind the curtains so I wouldn't buy this woman story.Disspora African wazungus I have always insisted that pple should invest something hapa mtaani;if the woman/couple had done it hangekuwa na mashinda.She will b having food n house confortably but hii unjinga ya kukaa kwa wenyewe thinking it's heaven n it's pure lies will catch up with majority of those who have decided not to do something small hapa especially when SHIT like this happens??I will finish anjisot juu if u have 2/3kids nilazima uwe umenjipanga.Most men especially in USA leave in their homes like kids(Wamekaliwa saaanna)but it's upto them to make a decision.Dont did slowly as a man inside that house.Abandon that bitch invest n come home aslong as u keep supporting ur kids???

kaa na mtu humjue! MRUDISHE KWAO BILA DHURUMA

This story does not make any sense, and I personally would not contribute my hard earned money. Ask yourselves, who travels to Kenya from the USA for vacation without a return ticket? Secondly, how can she not have any money on her, and even if she didn't, doesn't she have any relatives in Kenya? If indeed she is stuck in Kenya and wants to travel back to the US, why not ask her relatives or friends to loan her money for an air ticket, to be repaid? Why start asking strangers for help?

If she was not working majuu I do not see her humbling herself to work in Kenya.Where are her relatives ati stranded after being tricked.Exactly what does she need help with an air ticket really this is a hoax

For those who are suspecting a scam here,I would like to ask them how much money is involved here.I dont think its much.I am assuming that the scam goes something like this:
Honey, lets go back to Kenya for vacation,but since we dont have much money, I will leave you there and comeback here. Diaspora will see me and of course ask.I will tell them that we had some domestic dispute and I left.When they call you, tell them that I angrily left them destitute,and with no money. Sound desperate ,hurt and helpless.Honey you know how they love you and respect you here in diaspora. They will not tolerate one of their own suffering.Punde si punde a go- fund me account will be set to lift you from this 'hole'.They will have paid your return tickets,and given you some pocket cash.When you comeback, you will act like you are too mad to see me. We shall keep this facade for 3 months,and eventually get together as family.Honey this is just one of my many projects in the pipeline. God bless whoever came up with go-fund-me,and more wealth and prosperity to diaspora, since my future plans will be bigger...
I dont think so. I would like to appeal to the better angel in us.This is not a scam.

I'm wondering if they are legally married or not. If they are she should be able to bring herself and the kids back easily. It shouldn't be this complicated. Plus given their domestic issues, she needs to leave him asap. They can coparent

Those asking why the mother and her children didn't have return tickets are missing one major fact. In most households when a family is planning a vacation, the father or man of the house pays for the tickets. Even if the mother were to chip in, still usually it's the father who goes on the computer or contacts a travel agent to buy the tickets. When departing from US airports no one demands that you show return ticket. So, under normal circumstances, how do those saying that the woman should have known expect her to know about the tickets in safe custody of her man? Even the issue of her or family not having money to pay for return tickets doesn't make sense. How many people, men or women, go to Kenya with $6,000 to 8,000 spare to buy return tickets for four people? Mind you that a one-way maybe as much as round trip fare; or even more. Also, how many Kenyan families would have approximately Kshs 1,000,000 lying around to give to a daughter or sister and her three children after being tricked by her husband or live in man? Regardless of the nature of their issues, or whether this woman was controlling or abusive to her man, as @Maxley has commented, this was a cowardice act on the part of this mean spirited man. Quite simply, he is a bully and a coward. He ought to be ashamed himself for putting these three young children in such a callus manner. Even if they are not his biological children, as their guardian, he should not have uprooted them from US u see false pretenses. I hope Kenyans in his community will shun this shameless, heartless coward. I hope the woman and her children return to the US to devorce this cowardly sob and claim child support without him ever seeing the children unsupervised.

This is a true story according to some Kenyans who know the couple.But the woman is not giving the true story.Her husband left her with return tickets only for her to extend her return to 27th of July,2017.Again she does not explain why they did not travel.I hope the husband will tell the truth.

Wow, this article has gotten more responses than any I've seen lately. Very opinionated responses. Touched a nerve in many diaspora homes? Hmmmmm

Mwanamke akiwa mang'aaa ...

Ahh Kumbe all is here and sundry- the verdict is yours,

http://www.jambonewspot.com/husband-abandoned-three-kids-kenya-returned…

That's why it's good to invest back home,and instead of leaving them in kenya,just relocate back home and enjoy your life without stress

Formerly guest 2 that's why I said marriages in USA is drammers in almost 90% of the homes where women control men to the neck.Wanaume wamekaliwa chapati n they should blame themselves not other pple.I leaved there for a long time n I rescued many as community leader in our state????

How comes the group helping her can't raise the ticket? This is not something to be published to the whole world. If she doesn't have savings to pay her ticket back to US, that means she was a nightmare living here. Maybe the reason she got shipped and dropped to Kenya. I can see endless fights for Child Support claims.

If she wasn't a value when she lived in the US, how will it be a value coming back? And if she didn't look for the travel documents before travelling to Kenya, this is a big problem. How can you travel abroad without knowing details about your travel? New nickname "SUMBUA"

Those Men who are blaming diaspora women,they,either are ignorant or they have no clue of what these called Kenyan men have put woman in to.They come here they don't want to work,all what they do is drink and women, neglecting their wives and kids,then they blame women for their failure.My question is,if this woman has given this guy 2 or 3 kids,don't you think this woman loved this guy?,all what I know this guy is trying to run away from responsibilities,why don't himself go back to Kenya and leave his wife and kids in USA???Selfish man,Good luck young lady all will be well.

ati kukaliwa chapati?? I lived in US for 20 years and then bought a one way ticket to jamuhuri in June 2014.I have american kids living in nairobi and I don't understand when you say that someone is stranded in nairobi.Kenya is our home,how can we be stranded in our country of birth???

Family feuds are no news! Every family has its own.

Seem to have been so desperate for a chance to write that you become irrational.

If guys are suffering like that in the US, why the ego when you cannot handle these issues.

Human life is dynamic and in most cases the experience is deeply personal though there might be some similarities.

If you look carefully, there are dignified Kenyan couples living in the USA as elsewhere. This story indicates untold issues which the concerned family need to resolve or seek professional help otherwise every mdomo and bongo will build a story for them. Don't give people an opportunity to puke on your life. No matter the situation, handle issues with dignity for who knows about tomorrow.

I do not condone a man or a woman subjecting their partner to abuse - Verbal, physical or otherwise. Having said that, we don't know much about this case. The reason why I seem to doubt if this is a genuine case:
1) Most people who travel have a credit card to use in case of emergencies. If you live in the old USA, I can bet you have a card or two. Are you saying this lady lived the old house-wife style of waiting the husband to bring money at the end of month and has no way out of this other than asking for help? Unless she lived a solitary life, one has a friend or two who can get together in a case like this one to help.
2.Did the guy take the kids and wife's passport and other document so she cannot do anything absolutely?
3.We don't know about the makarasi issue for this woman. If say, her "paper work" is in order and the kids are US citizens, she can get help from the Embassy. This can be tricky if you are a green card holder and you have a lot of dirt under the carpet. Hell can break lose going to the embassy.
4.Common sense tells me that, there was a bigger problem with these two mpaka the guy thought of taking this action. I am not saying it's ok what he did but we all know different folks react differently when faced with problems and especially domestic ones.
So, my take is,let's hear from both and then I will make a valid conclusion. At this point, I think the budden of proof remains with the maker of this request- the woman to proof that this is not a scheme to make money. I rest my case.

whatever the case is, that man need to take care of his kids.

This is fake news. Usually when u purchase Air ticket it's always a round trip.

Tunalipa ushuru hapa marikani wacha hio mapesa hiwatumikie hao watoto, wacha mama afenye mieareka yake.

@Guest1 you are right but when neither works it is best to part ways especially when kids are involved. Respect is always earned and not bought...a man cannot ask to be respected if he behaves otherwise. Using "work" has become a norm for some african men in the usa who are pathological liars but a woman will catch you. Instincts and intuitions go along way. In her case we wish her and the kids the best......it was not in the man best interest and he does not care about the kids coz if he did then taking off like that???? ndovu zikipigana nyasi inaumia and that is what is happening in many african communities (keeping up appearances) let the truth be told and some men act responsible. If she was a stay at home mom wapi time and labor? kama wengine watasema child support: it takes money to raise children and that is why KWITU women and others are doing their best to assist where they can. we can only hope for the best outcome

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I hope wherever she is currently with the children is within the family setup of either the lady or the man's kinsmen.Has she raised any concern to them as to why that happened. I am sure family members must be privy to what is going on. What happened with the return tickets theory?
I suspect something is going on more than what meets the eye. We may fundraise for the tickets only to expose the lady and children to more danger when they come back to the same home where the run away husband and father is staying.
Please address underlying issues first.

Something doesn't add up here. Period!!!

Haha... that woman will never go on holiday again

most kenyan women in abroad are so useless.they take advantage over their husband who sacrificed to take them there.bure kabsaaa nyinyi.u think that money is everything. let this woman learn aleson.huyu ni mtu alisumbua ii jamaa wairegi sana.that was the only solution to this family differences.i pray that this woman will no get documents to travel back to us.

Why can't the woman go to U.S. Embassy in Nairobi and get passport and visas to go back to U.S.? Did she depend on husband and had no job to support herself? How about if the husband died? What would the woman do? She needs to learn from the experience and become more independent. If I were she, I would return to live with my kids and not the damn husband. If one can leave own parents; why not leave a stupid husband?

Usually going on vacation, you pay for round trip, why did they need help to return to US if the tickets were already paid. Just needed to board their plane and return to their address. are you sure there was no plan with husband to find a way of getting funds. Iam kind of suspicious about the whole story. A lot of people abusing gofund.

what happened to the return tickets.