Kenyan Man Living in the US Abandons Wife and Three Kids in Kenya after Tricking Them to a Holiday
A Kenyan woman together with her three children are now said to be living in despondency after her husband, based in the United States, flew them to Kenya for holiday and left them behind in the country without their knowledge.
Susan Mwangi has been living with her husband the US and he reportedly lured them back home (Kenya) in the name of taking them for a holiday, only to abandon them to jet back to the US.
He spent a few days with them in Kenya, after which he secretly flew back, living Susan and children behind without their knowledge and with no cash for food or upkeep.
Susan would only learn of the incident when some neighbors in the US called to confirm that her better half had flown back.
Susan narrated how together with her kids have been suffering in Kenya after being left with nothing.
Following the incident, a group of Kenyan women living in the diaspora known as KWITU has teamed up to raise funds for Susan to return to the US.
KWITU set up a GoFundMe account where Kenyan ladies in US and Canada are crowdfunding for the poor lady and her children.
“KWITU ladies, as you all know what predicament happened to one of our sister, who was abandoned by her spouse back home in Kenya after going home for a family vacation with the kids. She and her 3 children were left behind unawares and are still stuck in Kenya and in desperate need of financial support. On behalf of my myself and all KWITU colleagues, we are pleading with you for monetary assistance to enable her and kids return to the USA to continue with life smoothly,” a post in the account reads.
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Let's hope that the following Incidents did NOT happen while tho Couple Stayed Together in the USA:
Mwanamke Kukubebea Kichwa wewe Mwanaume; na Hata Kukutisha, Kukutesa, Kukuitia Askari kiholela; Kukunyonya na-Child Support (hata Baada ya Kumsimamia na Kumsaidia Masomoni).
I hope the Foregoing Incidents did NOT happen between this Couple.
That man is a dummy wa mwisho kwani alizani he’ll get away with it? If he was thinking it will do away with them just like that then he should be prepared for the child support and spouses support if he married her legally. Thank you Kwitu
@guest1, I have been in a situation that you are talking about and I understand how this women can take advantage. I do not even know why this should be news on mwakilishi
@Wakenya. I was ALLUDING to what may have been the REASON(s) for this guy doing what he did. So let's hope this "poor lady" did not "torture" this "poor guy" before his last resort was "Enough is Enough." But above all Things and Challenges: These kids need their father by all means; but NOT when their mother "may have attempted the "Child Support" thing.
Or:
He had Mipango wa Kando USA.
I have so many questions over the uncertainty of this story but I will leave my curiosity out of it. To begin with, why can't this mama just get herself and her kiddos back to the US?..hint..if these kids are American citizens, there is an American embassy in Kenya...
Baits. Good point; good advice for her.
Whoa!!! Wait a Minute here!
On Mwakilishi: It SEEMS Men Comments vs Bad Women. On Jambonewdpot: It's vise versa; Women Comments vs Bad Men.
Link on:
http://www.jambonewspot.com/husband-abandoned-three-kids-kenya-returned…
I have read the story. Wairegi is from Solai. Where does the wife come from and where did they take the ruracio (dowry)? That info' is missing. Wairegi kept their travel documents with his lawyer. Very fishy. Women carry handbags and most likely she is the one to put their passports in her pocketbook. Wairegi will be in hot soup for hiding their travel documents and abandoning 2 USA citizen children in Kenya. If Susan get a good lawyer in usa once she comes back. Wairegi hiyo child support for 3 kids utalipa or they will garnish your wages.
Baite:- Going by the story that this lady narrated, ( not sure if its the truth) it seems like the guy too the airplane tickets and also travel documents for the kids and wife.
The Embassy needed consent from the Father in order for them to travel back..
Anyhow the lady and the kids are back to the USA.
Can we get the whole story before we contribute. What if we contribute and find that they cannot come back kwa sababu ya makaratasi? For something like this to happen, there must have been a "fight"going on in the family. What if the woman was on the wrong as Guest1 says? If the man was on the wrong, then count me in to help. I have seen kids of some of our fellow Kenyans behaving badly. Imagine your own daughter brings her boyfriend to your house and disrespects you in front of anybody?Don't just tell me it's the problem of the parents not bringing the kids well. For those who live in USA know very well that, if a woman or a kid calls the cops and claims that you insulted them leave alone slapping them, you go to jail and it will be uphill to proof otherwise.
Mtalii. I am glad you mentioned "kids behaving badly". For I know of a Couple I would call a "Revoling Door" couple. The wife in but the husband out (putting in Doubles or Tripples). And to make matters worse: they would BOTH be Absent from (with Kids Home Alone).
Lesson Learned?
Kids (especially the son) began trouble/or call it rebellion; was Sent Back to Kenya; and now......the PRODIGAL son has learnt that The US is better than Nairobi: He wants to "Come Humble Himself in the US under the "wings" of his parents." Hahaha!!!
This women from Kenya so useless, lazy and taking advantage over men. They use the system to oppress men and spoil their records. I would do the same. Leave them I. Kenya and hide my brother. For as long as they can't serve you court papers you should be good.. wanake wa Kenya bure kabisa
Abdalla. Pole Pole. Kuja Pole Pole. Slow down. But I know what you mean.
Sio wote bro although most are devils.
Weee come slowly :-). I'm a Kenyan woman and I know I'm not useless, don't know who you have been hanging with . There are plenty of Kenyan women of substance in these United States...
True! Co-signed and stamped.
There is a lot unsaid here which does not help the case. How could the woman not know the ticket was one way? This couple must have been having serious problems. I am not condoning what the man has done but there is a lot than meets the eye. Kenyan families are facing serious challenges and because we are a closed society that does not discuss family matters in the open, we will continue to witness such desperate acts. I am glade we are not reading about a violent situation as has happened in the past
Theirs Thaituru. Hata Huenda this "poor lady" ALIMCHOKESHA Jamaa na:
1. Mdonye Mungu (big mouth)
2. Wakati Mwingi Me a Kitabu cha Uso (FaceBoook)
3. Ama Kuchochewa na Wakenya Wivu (both men and women)
4. Jamaa Akaruka Kichwa (na Kurusha Jamii kwa Ndege one way). Suru Potea! Akasema.
@Mtalii and @Baite. I agree with you 100%.
There is always two sides to the story.Until we have/get conclusive and irrefutable evidence on what transpired;and lead the man to leave his family in Kenya, all is speculation.Having said this,I also take the position that it was a cowardice act.
Is that how a"ndume" acts? I surely hope not,even if madam was very offending in this union called marriage.Iam also curious as to how old the kids are.My take is that they are pretty young,and if that is the case how were they supposed to sustain themselves assuming that he did not want madam to supposedly enjoy his hard earned money.Which by the way when you are married its for both of you irrespective of who brings in the lions share.
For those who are waiting to unleash a tirade of insults,please think of the innocent kids.
That spirit of harambee that is working to help mama na watoto is commendable.Put yourself in their situation.Wouldn't you want someone to come to the rescue?
I also suspect that what precipitated to this action has been brewing for a while. I am not a marriage counselor ,but Its pretty much common sense to nip your problems in the bud before they become uncontrollable wild bush.And whether the union is savable ,is for the two to decide...What is a deal breaker to you may be a joke to me.
By the way, I have seen this "movie" before.By way of Nigeria.
Heh I hope she gets back here and y'all know what will be next if she doesn't have a heart of Gold to forgive him and take him back. Good luck to both of them on the road ahead, they will need it .
RECONCILIATION (as you said) could be the 1st Move; but if no Reconciliation: Divorce follows; and then Child Support kicks in (and this is NOT good for Mr. Wairegi).
This case has left lots of questions. However I consider this man as good. Some men have done worse like killing wife and kids when the wife become devils. This looks like those kind of women who solely depend on their men but give him hell. What kind of a responsible working woman would be stranded in her country of birth? She has no account? Think before you contribute for her to get back to US. If the guy is pushed to the edge and God forbid he kills them, the blame will be on you.
Well said. Maybe the jamaa has a sidechick. Or mke nyumbani was too hot headed the jamaa took it upon himself to deport her to her momma. Bi**h move?
Yes.. but hey, some of these kenyan women are crazy ghetto feminists. Kila disagreement/ arguement or she doesn't grt her way she's like 'nitaita polisi niwambie I fear for my life!!'..
We don't know the whole story.
Sisi tumekwisha. That is why I miss home.
Does this woman have makaratasi, na kama ni hivo alipata hio makarakatasi kupitia kwa mumeo, Nimeona mengi hapa marikani, Hawa kina mama hunawaleta hapa, napatia makaratasi na masomo na watoto.Wengi wao wanakua watibaji wadogo (nurse) wakati huo, wanasahahu njia waliopitia kufika paali pa mapesa mengi sana. Sasa wanamea mapembe halafu wanaaza matusi kwa mumeo, wanaenda inje wanarudi husiku wa manane, huku unauliza mpenzi ulikuwa wapi, hata majibu hakuna sasa ukiongeza maneno anaita Askari.. sasa maisha ya dhuruma imieanza na kijana mwenyewe ndio atachomeka all the time.
Huyu mjomba Hakuua mtu, Alipeleka huyo mama nyumbani alipomtoa. Watoto ni wanamarikani na hawatadhaharika Mama aende kwenye ukurugenzi wa marikani huko Nairobi watatumikia watoto, na kama mama hako na makaratasi harudi huku aendeshe maisha ya kibinafsi. Wacheni kushurutisha waliosababisha maisha bora na afya zuri huku Marikani na kwengineo.
Inshalla
Very true!
my first thought was on the kids. the whole story is not adding up.
Until we as women stop keeping up appearances especially with some African men who think they can get away with anything this things will continue to happen. I supported the father of my kids go to school, thereafter he started his cassanova lifestyle and is in his 50s,abused us,abandoned us took away our means of transportation, and prior was coming home whenever he wanted to show up coz he already had been seeing a Hawa. As a woman I decided to get away and he knew we had left after days. I traveled miles away by bus and train with my toddlers. Within 8 months to a year I managed to get a car, oncall job and my own apartment. Prayers, resilience, overcoming attitude, kids motivation, surrounding yourself with positive beings and hardwork pays. The cultural ways of staying with an abuser must stop for the sake of saving our children....just because it was ok then, it is never ok now. Any woman reading this please know you can make it especially if you focus on your kids.
This may be a scam to milk millions from diaspora
My thoughts too
These GoFundMe ladies or Susan herself should provide her Kenyan phone number.I want to send something directly to the children.
Most of the African men cannot handle the USA coz they wanna have multiple partners without having been caught and do not also want to take care of the kids coz they believe they r KINGS. .....Women want to be respected but insulting women and abusing will not help. Hapa ngambo sote sawa lets stop insults and talk facts. Alot is not been addressed about the African immigrant communities......
Dee. Women (Warembos) need LOVE (99% of the time); Men (Ndumes) need RESPECT (99% of the time). But when we (couples) Switch the 2 Virtues Around, we confuse and we like Trying to Sqeeze Blood out of stone. Impossible (if not tedious).
This poor guys must have gone through hell .in the states so making it simple itstead of murder he took the gal back to the mother ,he could have thought otherwise and we could be talking different story now. So let's act while they are both alive
When going to Kenya to vacation, people buy return tickets. Something does not add up
No you do not have to. Actually sometimes its cheaper to get a one way and purchase a return if you are not so sure on your return dates or are into hedging for airfare tickets.
Does this lady have relatives in Kenya? I hope her mother, father, sisters, brothers, uncles & aunties. I feel for the kids.
Hehehehe diasporas western stories as usual???Our culture as Africans allows men to marry another wife so if he had one on the side that's not a problem as long as he is taking care of the 1st especially the kids.Kwani hii bibi haikuwa inafanya kazi???Mayb she torchered n mistreated the dude like 90% of women do in diaspora???For a man n I mean I man to behave this way something mite have bin happening behind the curtains so I wouldn't buy this woman story.Disspora African wazungus I have always insisted that pple should invest something hapa mtaani;if the woman/couple had done it hangekuwa na mashinda.She will b having food n house confortably but hii unjinga ya kukaa kwa wenyewe thinking it's heaven n it's pure lies will catch up with majority of those who have decided not to do something small hapa especially when SHIT like this happens??I will finish anjisot juu if u have 2/3kids nilazima uwe umenjipanga.Most men especially in USA leave in their homes like kids(Wamekaliwa saaanna)but it's upto them to make a decision.Dont did slowly as a man inside that house.Abandon that bitch invest n come home aslong as u keep supporting ur kids???
Mkenya Halisi, this issue of marrying more than one wife in african culture was a result of the men treating women as property.All you had to do is to amass wealth(land and animals).Once that was done, you would then start buying the women( pay bride price)One at atime I suspect.The richer one was, the more women he had.Remember then women, and to some extend today, women could not inherit,or own land.Basically all wealth in the community was in the hands of men. You cannot say same applies in today's society,in general.Women now have their own wealth,and some even go as far as having boy toys.There has been a cataclysmic shift in culture.If you dont believe me,check "EVE" in Standard paper...
For now,its not frowned upon,but I suspect that in 100 years time when all men living now have departed,it will be something to just read in history books and wonder...
My forecast is that eventually men and women world over will leave as "equals"with no cultural restraints,but legal ones.To shape our way of lives,and mores, we shall rely more on science...For now as women empower themselves who knows what will happen in 50 years. May be african women will start "marrying" at least 4 men.
Husband number 1. bread winner
Husband number 2. sperm donor
Husband number 3. sexual stud
Husband number 4. "male maid"
Of course just like men,she could hire men to do all mentioned duties,but economies of scale dictates that it would be less costly if they live together-"marry".Good news is that for those who are living now and are disgusted with this kind of arrangement, they will not be there to see it,or if alive it will be so common that it wont concern anyone.Just like women getting education is so common place now,but this was never the case.
Ha ha ha @maxiley, that's just too funny my brother. I hope you are not one of those abcd in Florida lol
I wish...
Next time you come to Florida,let me know. I will take you to my " grand palace",and let you find out for yourself...:)I missed you last time you where here.
Sawasawa kwani that chica from mehico left ama:-) .Yeah next time I come down there although the St Petersburg I like , I hear retired KKKs reside there and all those Russians...
I would not engage in a foolhardy act like that: inviting you to my grand palace while "chica"is still there:)
That, this is the sister I forgot to tell you about wont work...
And you are right there are plenty of Russian in this little moscow...
As for KKK,my friends Smith and Wesson have assure me that they will stop them in their tracks.
I am tempted to post my 'resume' on Mwakilishi.That position is till open...
#3, won the triple crown
kaa na mtu humjue! MRUDISHE KWAO BILA DHURUMA
This story does not make any sense, and I personally would not contribute my hard earned money. Ask yourselves, who travels to Kenya from the USA for vacation without a return ticket? Secondly, how can she not have any money on her, and even if she didn't, doesn't she have any relatives in Kenya? If indeed she is stuck in Kenya and wants to travel back to the US, why not ask her relatives or friends to loan her money for an air ticket, to be repaid? Why start asking strangers for help?
If she was not working majuu I do not see her humbling herself to work in Kenya.Where are her relatives ati stranded after being tricked.Exactly what does she need help with an air ticket really this is a hoax
Seems like somebody who wants to add few dollars to whatever she has to buy a ka-plot. Nobody buys one way ticket when going for a vacation
For those who are suspecting a scam here,I would like to ask them how much money is involved here.I dont think its much.I am assuming that the scam goes something like this:
Honey, lets go back to Kenya for vacation,but since we dont have much money, I will leave you there and comeback here. Diaspora will see me and of course ask.I will tell them that we had some domestic dispute and I left.When they call you, tell them that I angrily left them destitute,and with no money. Sound desperate ,hurt and helpless.Honey you know how they love you and respect you here in diaspora. They will not tolerate one of their own suffering.Punde si punde a go- fund me account will be set to lift you from this 'hole'.They will have paid your return tickets,and given you some pocket cash.When you comeback, you will act like you are too mad to see me. We shall keep this facade for 3 months,and eventually get together as family.Honey this is just one of my many projects in the pipeline. God bless whoever came up with go-fund-me,and more wealth and prosperity to diaspora, since my future plans will be bigger...
I dont think so. I would like to appeal to the better angel in us.This is not a scam.