Kenyan Gospel Singer Betty Bayo Exposes Her Former Husband, Pastor Victor Kanyari
Kenyan gospel singer Betty Bayo has accused her former husband, Pastor Victor Kanyari of neglecting their children.
Speaking during an interview with Radio Jambo, the popular musician said the controversial clergyman contributes little to the welfare of the children they had together before divorcing.
This, she said, is despite Kanyari leading a flashy lifestyle featuring expensive houses and fuel guzzlers.
“We are neither enemies nor friends, but we coordinate where it is possible. He is a stingy man who only provides little for his children,” she said.
“Don’t think he is that man you wake up and ask him for everything. He helps kidogo but I believe as a woman you are not supposed to depend fully on men, so I provide for them. With an attitude like mine, unaumia coz not all men can provide without being reminded.”
The two separated in 2015 after the "man of God" was exposed by an investigative journalist for conning innocent Kenyans and performing fake miracles.
The "11th Hour’ hit-maker said she tried to save her marriage over fears of what people would say but later realized it was not worth it.
“I don’t miss Kanyari. I am so occupied with life and I even don’t follow up on what he does. I am enjoying the freedom of being single. Every marriage has issues. There are those you can stand but others you can’t. It is every woman’s dream to have a family, but I learnt that it is good to never cover up for the wrong things just because of love. If it is not working, walk out. Don’t die because of what people will say after you walk out.”
She further dismissed claims that she got a baby out of their wedlock “It has been three years since I left and when the time comes, I will get married again to a good person, because I don’t want to find myself in a similar situation,” she said.
“I wish there was something I would have done to save the marriage, but I tried my best. All my kids are his but everyone has a right to say what they want. You can’t be affected if you know your truth.”
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If I were you Betty: I would…
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If I were you Betty: I would prove Kanyari wrong by Single handedly raising the Kids with a Career like yours. But I wont Deny him Visitatipns as a Father (unless Unavoidable circumstances dictate othersise). Ngai akurathime!
@ Saint Guest1,you have been…
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In reply to If I were you Betty: I would… by Guest1 (not verified)
@ Saint Guest1,you have been known to quote your bible pretty often.What does Luke 14.26 say.Could this be what kanyari is doing.Following what the good book says...just curios.
In Like 14:26 the Bible says…
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In reply to @ Saint Guest1,you have been… by Maxiley (not verified)
In Like 14:26 the Bible says thst:"If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple".
Answer: This Verse is about "SACRIFICING the Love of Flesh for the LOVE of CHRIST". Love of the Flesh is Hindrance to Following Christ; so H
Hating the HINDRANCE is the call here; not the People. Hate the Sin; not the Sinner.
Strongly disagree with your…
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In reply to If I were you Betty: I would… by Guest1 (not verified)
Strongly disagree with your notion that, " I would prove Kanyari wrong by single handedly raising the Kids". This is about children's rights to have both parents participating in raising them, it's not about money nor proving that one parent can do it all. Children have rights to be nourished, educated, loved, protected, provided for and a right to have both parents full participation in their upbringing. If I were her, I will sue Kanyari for negligence on behalf of my children.
You cannot FORCE child…
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In reply to Strongly disagree with your… by XG (not verified)
You cannot FORCE child Support on a Man unless the Man FORCED himself on the Woman.
Kanyari is one of those evil…
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Kanyari is one of those evil beings who hide in this white religion called Christianity. They are in it to make money period. There is also this Natasha woman who walks around with bodyguards like Jesus did. Then the murderer and drunk who should be in jail Ng'ang'a and the real fleacers Kiunas who have mastered art.
Bodyguards and Disciples are…
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In reply to Kanyari is one of those evil… by Mugikuyu (not verified)
Bodyguards and Disciples are 2 different kinds of People.
Ndugu @Maxiley umefanya…
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Ndugu @Maxiley umefanya vizuri kumkumbusha ndugu yetu@Mgeni wa kwanza ambaye ni mtumwa wa kitabu cha mila za Wayahudi kinachoitwa "Biblia." Inaoekana Ndugu Kanyari ni Mkristo mzuri sana. Nawaombeni msome tena Luke 14:26! Marehemu Yeshua/Yesu ndiye aliyesema yote yaliyoandikwa hapo.
Kuna msemo katika lugha ya Kiswahili unaosema, "Wajinga ndio waliwao." Kama nijuavyo, tunaishi katika dunia isiyo na huruma. Waswahili wana methali nyingine inayosema, "Asiyefunzwa na mamaye, hufunzwa na dunia isiyo na huruma."
Kwa nini hata sasa wanaojiita "wasomi" hawajaweza kuona uongo, ulaghai, na uchafu uliomo kwenye vitabu hivi viwili vinavyoitwa Koran na Biblia? Mimi namwamini MWUMBAJI ambaye kazi yake ilimalizika kabisa aliponipa akili. "Akili ni mali," Ndugu zetu Waswahili walisema hivyo pia.
Koran ni kitabu cha historia, mila, na lugha ya Waarabu. Ukisema wewe ni Mwislamu na asili yako siyo Mwarabu, unaonyesha wazi ya kwamba, umeshatoa akili yako yote kwa Waarabu na pia, umechanganyikiwa. Yaani, wewe huna tofauti na mtu aliyekufa!
Isitoshe, Biblia ni kitabu kinachoonyesha historia, mila, falsafa, na mawazo ya Wayahudi. Kwa hivyo, ndugu zangu na dada zangu, ukisema ya kwamba wewe ni Mfuasi wa Marehemu Mwana wa Miriamu (Yeshua/Yesu), unaonyesha ya kwamba akili yako imeshatekwa nyara (brain-jacked) na Wayahudi na wewe huna tofauti na mtu aliyekufa!
Matatizo yetu makubwa Kenyqa na nchi za Waafrika katika bara la Afrika ni kuwa, tayari, tumeshakodesha akili yetu kwa Waarabu na Wayahudi na akili iliyobaki kwa Wanayuropa. Dini hizi mbili ni dini ambazo majambazi hujificha ndani na kuendeleza ujambazi wao. Kwa nini, Marehemu Mwana wa Mariamu/Miriamu alisema ya kwamba UKITUBU dhambi zako, na kumkubali kama Mkombozi wako, mara utakapokufa, utakwenda moja kwa moja "mbinguni." Ndiyo sababu unaona majambazi wengi huenda kanisani kila Jumapili. Wanaendeleza ujambazi wao halafu wanaomba msamaha siku ya Jumapili, na kuendelea na uhalifu wao mpaka siku ya Jumapili na kuomba msamaha tena.
Ndugu Kanyari ni Mkristo mzuri sana kwa sababu anafuata maagizo ya Marehemu Yeshua kwa kusoma kila siku Luke 14:26!
Ndugu yetu @Ngeni wa Kwanza…
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Ndugu yetu @Ngeni wa Kwanza amepigwa msasa kiwango ambacho hawezi kukombolewa tena -" Brainwashed Beyond Redemption." Yeye amesahau asili yake. Sasa amejifanya Myahudi na pia mtaalamu wa Biblia!
@Mgeni wa Kwanza, niambie uko wapi ili nije kukuokoa na pia kukukomboa kutokana na hali yako mbaya sana ya kupigwa msasa. Sitakulipisha pesa zozote au kukutoza hata senti moja!
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