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A 28-year-old Kenyan woman is looking for her American boyfriend after he allegedly escaped with their two-year-old son.
Lilian Mwai, a beautician in Nakuru town, says that her lover, Matthew Stumpf Herbert left their house in Nakuru's Koinange estate on January 22nd.
Lillian says Stumpf left with his personal documents, including his passport, and their son without her consent.
“I am worried Herbert, whom I have been dating for the past three years, may have left the country with my son,” says Mwai.
She says trouble began a few weeks ago after she discovered that Stumpf was cheating on her.
“We have been in a relationship for some time now. Problems started when I realized he had been chatting with several girls on his phone. When I tried to stop him, he beat me up saying I am rude,” she explains.
After the incident, Ms. Mwai says she left the house and traveled to Kisumu with her friends, leaving Stumpf with their son.
After she returned from Kisumu, she spent the night at one of her friend's house and later met Stumpf in a hotel in Nakuru in a bid to solve their differences. After failing to agree, she went to Kaptembwo Police Station and filed a report accusing him of assault.
However, when police officers accompanied her to the house to arrest Stumpf, they found the man had left. He carried his passport and that of their son.
“I never knew he was planning to leave. I was shocked to get into the house and find he had picked all his belongings and taken off with our son,” says Mwai adding that she met Herbert through her cousin.
She says Herbert lives in the US but occasionally visits Kenya. Nakuru deputy OCPD Daniel Kitavi says they were investigating the matter.
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I suspect that picture belongs to Lillian's mother. Maybe Lillian was somewhere in Kisumu with her friends.
So when the two year old will be crying mama wapi,what will the"kidnapper"say?This is cruel to the kid.The only exception would be if the mother is abusive to the child,and the court system for one reason or another is not protecting the child.
With scanty information given, its hard to know if dad ran away with the kid because of love,or hate,to punish the mother.And certainly running to kisumu with friends when you have just had a fight with baby dady is a good idea.
Lets hope that the kid is safe.Havent we read here on mwakilishi about kenyan men killing their kids just to get at their partners/spouse...and yes Iam mindful that fellow is not a kenyan,but the concern is still real.
@ white, the article says she is 28.I suspect that this fellow is awhite.No pun intended.(from the name)
Anyway why should anybody be surprised if that is not her real age. We all know how some afrians lie about age,especially when they are working on going majuu for further education...
Unfortunately,even high ranking official in government are known to facilitate age cheating in sports.So its not along stretch to see this act of deceit appearing is the love arena,where stakes are high.My two cents.
I agree.👍
May be this is you if that helps with the issue !
is it a problem?
She looks as if she has so many problems or she is sick.
ofcourse if the hubby beats her up and has now run off with the baby she has problems
It's probably the upside down mop aging her! She needs to toss it away. What do I know? she is the beautician not me.
If this woman is 28 then am still a sperm.
I also don’t see a 28 years old here. Maybe she has gone through a lot.
when you are 28 and look 68. dating an american requires you to be skinny and not healthy? Nakuru has very good men.why american.
@SUKARI: Mwache huyu dada yetu atulize mawazo yake baada ya mwanawe kutekwa nyara (kidnapped) na babaye.
Imekuwaje badala ya kumwonea huruma dada Lilian Mwai, wengine wamtupia makombora (missiles) wakati hali yake ambayo yumo sasa, ni hali ya kuomboleza (mourn) mwanawe ambaye kwa sasa hajui mahali alipo!
Si afadhali kufa maskini kuliko kufanyiwa vitendo vya ajabu na wanaume Wanayuropa huko Kilifi. Hebu tazama yaliyompata mwanamke Mkenya kwenye vidiyo klipu ifuatayo:
@ Ndugu Imara.I watched the video and those two anon chalantly acting like its a game to them.Can you imagine if two africans came to America,and did the same to awhile woman.The upheaval would be disheartening.
It is with this arrogance,and"white privilage" that these wazungu can do that to black women.I also remember awhile ago some mzungu offered kenyan black women to have sex with his dog.Just the gall to ask awoman to do that,any woman is diabolical.
Someone's out there desperate and all y'all settle on is her looks. What sick fucks y'all are. Wekeni picha zenu hapa kila mmoja. Mko na ujinga sana
Ha ha ha ha! sad situation all around!
This woman has lost her child and the best some can comment here are looks. Very very unfortunate. Where is the empathy, understanding etc from the sisters? Women are their worst enemies.
Guilty as charged! Unfortunately, the brain is drawn to visuals first and foremost...so the first I saw was the upside down....lakini you are right, we should empathise. What shall we do now then Mugikuyu? Yes we empathise, lakini the man is equally the father, plus I note she left the house for days without the child. Now, most of our sisters are seduced by jungus who (this is controversial) get attracted to the ebony skin, kinky hair we are blessed with not to mention the submissive manners they believe an African woman has. The sisters then turn this around by trying to be the blonde, skinny, light skinned, attitude ridden mama mzungu the guy was leaving behind in the West! The mzungu then starts chasing around his dream girl and he is labelled a cheater! Ha, ha, ha, binadamu tuna shida kweli. Bottom line: Mwiba wa kujidunka…….fafanua ndugu!
That is why if he does not have 80% 99% Melanin, I do not even look in that direction . Heh afadhali Uhai :-):-):-)
But seriously any decent Mzungu , with class and come from class will rarely jet to Nakuru to look for a chic. The takataka wazungu wasio na class are the ones tangatangaring Kenya looking for exotic women after divorcing their mzungu wives and our poor girls with their brainwashed mentality , anything mzungu holding a fork and a knife must be loaded and very romantic yada yada as they see in the "Young and the restless ". I'm to be corrected if any classy wealthy, mzungu and I mean wealthy go for mama mboga or low class mwafrika. Proof me wrong! . On the other hand , our vijanas will fall over themselves to get a low class mzungu woman any day any time, sad sad sad and I see them hukoooo mambatha( Mombasa) trying to look cool yet looking at my direction like errrr, look straight brotha, on that Blonde blue eyed woman you chose, bet you didn't know there is nothing special there!
Have you ever looked closely at the so called low class mzungu in Kenya coz you and I know the real wealthy mzungu doesn't even karibia black sista with one foot pole, yet our tugirls see mzungu their tu eyes brighten up and they see all their wishes come true ati their prince, Those hollywood fantasy book were not written for a white Prince and black princess period (maybe Meghan Markle got lucky and it ain't going to happen again). Mzungu man is one inconsistent human being , akichoka na were it's over just like that ! So this mama didn't get the insider story , hopefully they can work some kind of parenting deal.
She looks her age!
Oh Really?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
FG2, I hear you! Seen them parade in Mombasa and they can smell a newcomer way from the airport exit! At the beach they will circle like vultures...No matter how thirsty I would be, I would never roll with a romance at the coast. Heck, one never knows where those ding dongs have gonged! In August..Germany, Sept..Italy, Decemeber ...Swiss! Everywhere whist still in Mombasa, baba! That "mounting" as Maxiley would say, must be something else. Now, that's real turned me off. Hope this dada reunites with her son. Those attachment years are crucial to parent/child relationship!
I wonder what the comments would have been if she this was Vera Sidika or Wambui Ngugi in the same situation.
Mine would have been the same...takataka low class mzungu , come in African river road, Ngong Road andmaybe Dusit coz he knows black chics will worship him including that Vera. Real wealthy Mzungu can't find his envionment of fabulous in Nairobi, he is only there for serenity = jet directly to Mahali pazuri( https://youtu.be/pDVGLZxkccg) or some Laikipia enclaves, the joints Prince Harry and William vacation and nyeuthi kenyans do not even know they are in their country.
@ Formerly guest two. I have to gree with you. First of all, a real mzungu,just like a real mwafrica,would not travel miles and miles away to find" amounting partner" If this mzungu lived in Kenya,and depends on how long that might be adiffrent story.
My take is that these wazungus come here to have fun,and as such,how do you expect them to be serious about any relationship.
They come here with the understanding that blacks are crazy about them,and thus take advantage of this perceived attraction.Ofcourse some get attached only to realize that they are yoked to the wrong partner,practically with nothing in common,and that's when matata starts.
Any union with an "imbalance trade" is bound to fail.The party shelling the most,or carrying the most weight will renegotiate anew deal,or look for apartner who bring to the table some semblance of equity.And those wazungus who look for a wife in amaid want to keep it that way,but the maid wants to be a wife.Another imbalance.
Ndugu yangu @Maxiley: Umesema tena yaliyo kweli kabisa. Kama Wafrika wangemfanyia msichana wa asili ya Yuropu vile hawa wanaume wa asili ya Yuropu walivyomfanyia Mkenya, kila kituo cha habari ulimwenguni kote kingewatangaza Wafrika hawa na sasa wangekuwa ndani ya jela wakipewa "hot dog & pinto beans" kama chakula chao cha jioni.
When the lady signed her kid"s passport application,the consular officer usually asks,"do you agree that your son/daughter should hold the US passport?Holding a US passport for a kid usually means any parent can travel with the kid."This nakuru lady gave consent to her boyfriend to travel with the kid.
is not good for a man cheat coz the bible reject
How old is this Lillian Mwai😭(with a 2 yr child)? She looks Fifty, Sixty to me.