60% of Nairobi Women Fear Marriage Would Limit Their Personal Freedom

A recent survey by Mwelekeo Insights reveals that Nairobi women are increasingly prioritizing personal freedom and financial independence when considering marriage.

The survey, conducted between February 3 and February 19 among women aged 18-30 in Nairobi, explored a range of factors influencing attitudes towards marriage, including its perceived impact on individual liberty, education, career aspirations, and societal expectations. The survey found that a significant 60 percent of respondents expressed concern that marriage could negatively impact their freedom, indicating a growing emphasis on independence. In contrast, 25 percent viewed marriage positively, while 15 percent held a neutral stance.

These findings align with a broader trend of women seeking self-reliance and individual fulfilment, as evidenced by the 59 percent of participants who believe marriage is not essential for a satisfying life. Conversely, 41 percent still consider marriage a key component of life satisfaction. Education and career advancement emerge as significant determinants in shaping these attitudes. The survey indicates that 67 percent of highly educated and career-focused women do not prioritize marriage, while 33 percent of those with lower education levels are more inclined to view it as a priority.

This disparity highlights the influence of educational and professional ambitions on women's personal choices. The study also examines perspectives on polygamy, revealing nuanced views. A slim majority, 51 percent, of Nairobi women indicated an openness to polygamous marriages, conditional on economic advantages. The remaining 49 percent rejected polygamy outright. This finding suggests that financial stability and transparency are critical considerations for those who might consider polygamous arrangements.

Societal pressures surrounding marriage continue to be a factor, though opinions are divided. The survey has found that 50 percent of respondents feel pressured by traditional expectations to marry, while the other 50 percent did not perceive such pressure. These shifts in attitudes among Nairobi women are occurring against a backdrop of increasing economic empowerment.

A December 2024 report from the Kenya National Bureau of Statistics (KNBS) documented a 92 percent increase in the number of female workers earning above Sh100,000 in the past year. This surge in female participation in sectors such as construction, agriculture, and education further underscores the growing financial independence of women and its potential influence on their choices regarding marriage and family structures.