I Celebrated When My Husband Died, Self-Confessed Kenyan Lesbian Pastor Jecinta Nzilani Says

I Celebrated When My Husband Died, Self-Confessed Kenyan Lesbian Pastor Jecinta Nzilani Says

Self-confessed Kenyan lesbian pastor Jacinta Nzilani Kilonzo has continued to open up about her gay lifestyle.

Speaking during a recent interview with a local news outlet, Nzilani says her sexual desire towards females started when she was 16 years.

In a shocking revelation, the clergywoman has revealed that she celebrated her husband's death in 2008 by tossing a bottle of champagne since she never enjoyed her 25-year marriage.

“Nikiwa katika ndoa sikuwa nataka mume wangu anikaribie hata kidogo. Hata wakati wa kufanya ngono tulikuwa tunasumbuana sana kabla nikubali," she says.

She says she has been in a relationship with a woman for more than a year now and her children have accepted who she is.

 “My firstborn said he is proud of me and supports me. He saw that I never brought men to the house after their dad died,” she notes.

When asked why she remained in her marriage despite not being happy, she explained: “I stayed because I did not want to embarrass my mother. I was not comfortable with my husband."

The televangelist says God gave her unlimited freedom when asked whether her sexuality violates biblical teachings. 

“I am a servant to all, I serve all people and I am attracted to women,” the cleric says.

In an interview with Radio Jambo in January, the 51-year-old said she plays the man's role in her relationship.

"I am the man, I control things. We kiss and have sex just like any other couple in a relationship."

''God gave me someone who I am happy to be with. I love her because she is mature, and she understands me as well. I have been with her for a year and I would love to marry her although we have not discussed it yet. You know it’s a process with the Kenyan constitution, but when the time comes, maybe we will talk about marriage,'' she explained.

 

Comments

Kikuyu Wamjomba (not verified)     Sat, 04/20/2019 @ 03:52pm

Next , you will come out clean that you got both sexual organs and both are super active. Homosexually is mental issue just like other mental related cases.

maxiley (not verified)     Sat, 04/20/2019 @ 06:43pm

This is why I have problems with these so called servants of God. How in the world could she celebrate the death of ther husband ...mmm unless she had ahand it his demise.
It bad enough if sinner celebrates but a servant of God? Boggles the mind.
As to why she stayed in her stale marriage,she give the reason that she did not want to disappoint her mother.What a lame excuse.So you fooled the man/husband...I guess the only time you pretended to enjoy sex is the time you thought that you would be pregnant,and thus have kids...
This begs me to wonder how many lesbians are married to heterosexuals and are very disgusted with the union,except of the financial and security therein.Yes I am sure there gay men who are married just to keep that social image of manhood.If you are really gay and proud,dont pretend,otherwise you are unfairly misleading another person.

mkenya halisi (not verified)     Sat, 04/20/2019 @ 07:29pm

Shetani hiii ichukuliwe itupwe ziwa victoria.We should somehow follow the sharia law by dealing with this morons who r bringing abomination in our society's.The pple should deal with such devilish mental pple in our communities

Seriously (not verified)     Tue, 05/28/2019 @ 12:00am

In reply to by mkenya halisi (not verified)

That woman is mad. Someone help take her to Mathare mental hospital.even this first born son who she says supports her choice, it's clear he is a mental patient.So please somebody help this woman and the son for proper counseling and treatment.

Imara Daima (not verified)     Sat, 04/20/2019 @ 10:13pm

Ndugu yangu @Mkenya Halisi:

Popote hawa ndugu na dada zetu wa kutoka Yuropa walipokwenda waliacha tabia zao nyingi za ajabu sana.
Kuna yule mnyama anayeishi baharini ambaye anaitwa jeli kiwavi (Jellyfish) ambaye ana minyiri (tentacles) mingi na kila mnyiri unaweza kukudhuru.

Wanayuropa ni kama jeli kiwavi anapokuja karibu nawe. Kwa vile mila zao zina minyiri mingi, baada ya kukaribiana naye, huwezi kamwe kuponyoka kuumizwa na mnyiri mmoja au minyiri mingi.

Ndiyo sababu unaona tuko kwenye hali hii mbaya tuliyomo. Waingereza wameacha tabia zao mbovu kila mahali walipokwenda duniani nzima. Huyu Dada aliachiwa mnyiri wa "ushoga." Watu wengine waliachiwa minyiri ya uongo, ufisadi, uuaji, uroho, ukristo, ulafi, utapeli, ujambazi, majivuno, uvivu, na uhalifu wote wambao unaweza kuufikiria.

Nakumbuka mwaka wa 2015 au 2016, dada mmoja mwingereza aliolewa na Mmasai ambaye alikuwa na mke wa Kimasai. Alipata mimba halafu akazaa mtoto aliyekufa baadaye. Baadaye akwamwandama mwanawe na kupata mimba na kumzaa mototo ambaye yuko hai sasa! Vitendo kama hivi ulivisikia wapi kabla Waingereza wakristo kufika Kenya?

Shule za bweni (boarding schools) ndizo zilikuwa makao makuu ya kuwachafua wanafunzi kwa kuwafundisha tabia mbaya za Waingereza na Wanayuropa wengine nchini.

Imara Daima (not verified)     Sat, 04/20/2019 @ 10:27pm

Kisa cha msichana Mwingereza kuzaa na mumewe halafu mwanawe ndicho hiki:

Kenyan Maasai warrior wedded British woman who moved and had baby with his son
International News By Mirror 2 years ago

Rebeka with Lawrence, the son to her ex husband
Theatre worker Rebekah O’Brien ended up in a real life script more bizarre than anything on stage the night a troupe of performing Maasai warriors came to town.

Act One saw stagehand Rebekah falling for dancer Rempesa and moving from East Anglia to a village in Kenya, sharing him with his non-too-pleased wife Joyce.

“Some of my friends thought I was insane, but it seemed like a good idea,” admits Rebekah, 26.

But when Joyce, mother of Rempesa’s five children, died of an accidental overdose, the villagers blamed the English outsider.

Rebekah tried to stick by her warrior despite a string of death threats, but the relationship ended.

Act Two: Enter Lawrence, Rempesa’s handsome 19-year-old son who is still at school having missed a few years through truancy.

Rebekah and ex husband Massai warrior Rempesa ole Kirkoya
Soon he was wooing his father’s ex – and one day he swept her off to his bedroom, proving himself to be “a much better lover than his dad” according to Rebekah.

She fell pregnant to him last August, but it didn’t work out and she returned home to have their son Kito who was born last week.

A Final Act reconciliation seems way off, though – and there is no chance of Lawrence paying maintenance any time soon as he isn’t set to finish school until Kito is five.

Cradling their son, Rebekah says: “I want Lawrence to be in his life, but I fear he sees me more as his mother than his girlfriend.

“I suppose it didn’t help that I was basically his stepmum before we got together.

“I’d love to live in Kenya again because I love the traditional way of life there.

“It doesn’t bother me that women are expected to cook and clean and look after their families. But I’m not sure there is any way back for Lawrence and me.”

Rebekah met his dad in October, 2012, while working at the Maddermarket Theatre in Norwich.

She struck up a friendship with butcher Rempesa, now 40, along with others in his Maasai song and dance troupe.

It led to her visiting them in Kisames, a village without running water or electricity an hour’s drive from Nairobi.

Rebekah loved their simple way of life, and soon she and Rempesa were exchanging longing glances when their paths crossed. They fell in love despite him speaking no English and she, no Swahili.

When Rebekah returned to the UK, they kept in touch via Skype – mainly through hand gestures.

“It could be frustrating, but I worked out Rempesa wanted me to be his wife.

"He was already married to a lady called Joyce but he assured me they were no longer physical and that it was OK for him to have two wives."

Rebekah moved to Kenya in December 2013 and lived with Rempesa.

She says Joyce gave their union her reluctant blessing, despite the two women finding it difficult to share their warrior.

Rebekah grew close to the couple’s children, but when Joyce died from an accidental overdose in January 2014, the village turned against her.

“They somehow saw it as my fault,” she says.

"I was so hurt. Joyce’s death hit the children really hard, especially Lawrence. He’d held her as she passed away.

"For a few months I divided my time between Kenya and the UK. I was getting death threats .

"But something kept drawing me back. I guess I wanted it to work out with Rempesa.”

Rebekah fell pregnant to him and had a girl named Arya back in Norwich in February 2015.

But she and Rempesa split before the birth and Arya died just six weeks later.

“It was the worst time,” Rebekah says.

“I had to tell Rempesa on Skype and he burst into tears. The grief was so overwhelming, but I felt like I wanted to go back to Kenya to be close to Arya’s family.

“I knew Rempesa and I were over for good but I missed his children. Lawrence insisted on coming everywhere with me. He was such a massive comfort.”

Then in May last year Lawrence confessed he had fallen for Rebekah as they strolled through the village together.

She says: “He told me he’d always loved me. I was stunned. I’d never thought about him like that.

“But before long, we were kissing. We found ourselves in his bedroom having sex. We were so caught up in the moment. It was incredible.”

Rebekah came back to the UK a few weeks later but kept in touch with Lawrence via phone before returning to Kenya in August.

“We didn’t tell anyone we were together,” she said.

“We knew the tribe would be shocked. Lawrence told me he wanted a family and I got swept along and agreed to start trying for a baby.

"A few weeks late, I had a positive test. Lawrence was jumping up and down. He said he couldn’t wait to be a dad.”

But sadly, it wasn’t the happy ending Rebekah craved. Lawrence started begging her for money after she returned to the UK for the birth.

“Now I have Kito I can’t afford to fork out hundreds to him,” she says. “People say he’s using me but I think he simply doesn’t have a clue about adult life.”

Despite surviving on benefits, she estimates she gave him around £600 in just a few months.

She says: “I began to wonder if I’d feel like I had two children instead of one when the baby arrived.

"I told him we couldn’t be together. He was really upset.” Kito was delivered by C-section last week.

Rebekah’s sister Gemma, 31, acted as her birthing partner. Lawrence says he is now saving for flights to see his son – but Rebekah isn’t holding her breath.

“Kito is perfect,” she says. “He is my world, especially after losing Arya. I do want Lawrence to meet him, but I wonder how long it will take.”

Despite it all, Rebekah says she wants to go back to Kenya and maybe even find love again there.

“I haven’t had the best experience with Maasai men but I could never rule out dating another,” she says.

“I’d love Kito to grow up in Kenya around his family. Only time will tell what the future holds.”

Anonymous UI (not verified)     Sun, 04/21/2019 @ 01:06pm

Immorality of organized religion. How can you call yourself a "pastor" and not be a follower of God's commandments. These foreign religions are fake to the core. The Bible is Hebrew Israelites (Black man's) constitution and history. When it is picked up by the Edormites(so called whites), some parts taken out, other parts whitened, then that which is distorted is preached and forced on to the blacks, this is the result. A woman who does not know what it means to be a pastor. First, how can you be a mother,a pastor and be happy with any loss of life. You went to celebrate your husband's death? Your husband is someone else's son, father, brother,uncle.
Pastor Nsilani, read the bible again with wisdom and learn you will be paid two fold for your actions and stop teaching what you do not understand. God's commandments should guide you as a pastor.
Organized church is dead.

Imara Daima (not verified)     Sun, 04/21/2019 @ 04:07pm

Dini ina uraibu (addiction) kama madawa ya kulevya, ngono, na muziki. Hebu soma uone:

Scientists Find Religion Triggers Same Area of Brain as Sex, Drugs and Love
• Over a year ago
by PAUL RATNER

Religious and spiritual experiences have profound effects on many people around the world. A new study from a team of neuroscientists shows that what they feel is caused by activating the brain’s reward circuits that control our ability to feel pleasure. It’s the part of the brain associated with sex, drugs, music as well as love.
"We're just beginning to understand how the brain participates in experiences that believers interpret as spiritual, divine or transcendent," said Jeff Anderson, M.D., Ph.D. from the University of Utah School of Medicine, senior author of the study and neuroradiologist. ”In the last few years, brain imaging technologies have matured in ways that are letting us approach questions that have been around for millennia."
To figure out how the brain processes spiritual feelings, the scientists focused their attention on a group of 19 church-going Mormons (12 males and 7 females - all former missionaries). The researchers caused these 20 to 30-year-olds to “feel the Spirit,” an important concept in the Mormon faith, and performed fMRI scans on their brains.
To cause spiritual feelings, the scientists showed the subjects videos from the Mormon Church, quotations from Mormon and other religious leaders, and had them read well-known passages from the Book of Mormon.
"When our study participants were instructed to think about a savior, about being with their families for eternity, about their heavenly rewards, their brains and bodies physically responded," said the study’s lead author Michael Ferguson, Ph.D.
Indeed, as participants had spiritual experiences, describing feeling peaceful, warm, and even moved to tears, they breathed more deeply and their hearts beat faster. These physical effects were observable at their strongest right before the participants pushed a button to mark the peak of their spiritual experience.

Samson (not verified)     Mon, 05/13/2019 @ 06:05pm

This lady is not a pastor, and has never been one: she is a false pastor. False minister are on increase you, see. Thus we have false apostles,prophets, evangelists, pastors and teachers. The Bible says that sexual immortality should never even be mentioned among God's people(Ephesians 5:3). But for false ministers, they can indulge any act of sexual immortality without any feeling of guilt. This is because they are plantings of the the devil. They have been raised by Satan to discredit Christianity. Any person who continue to commit sin is not a child of God (1John 3:4-6).Further more, any person who is sexually perverted cannot possibly be a child of God. Pastor Samson

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