Gospel Singer Loise Kim Advices Kenyan Women to Stick with Their Cheating Husbands
Gospel singer Loise Kim on Saturday caused a stir on social media after advising Kenyan women to stick with their husbands even when they cheat on them.
Loise, a divorcee, said it is unwise to leave a man over infidelity, arguing that no man is better than the other.
“No woman should leave her husband because he has taken another woman reason, no man is better than the other, just know how to handle him and solve your issues,” she wrote.
While insisting that she is not in any way encouraging adultery, the ‘Uhotani’ hit-maker noted that most women who leave their marriages because their spouses cheated end up finding ‘worse’ men.
“If you leave your husband because he has taken another woman and you think that you will go and get a better man out there, am sorry you are wrong, what you will get is another philanderer who is worse than your husband. Fight for this man who belongs to you.”
“Therefore, women, stick to your men, know how to handle them, solve your issues and how you will change him,” she added.
Loise recently opened up on how her seven-year marriage crumbled after the father of her two children moved to the UK in search of greener pastures.
“He got a visa and went to Britain. That is where my problems started. Things changed when he started receiving phone calls that I had done this and that. I would also get calls that he has done this and that. Hatred started growing, disagreements insults,” she narrated.
“Unfortunately, we became enemies to an extent of him neglecting me. We stopped talking, and I realized my kid’s life and mine depended on me.”
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Misery loves company.You…
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Misery loves company.You need to stop like yesterday if you cannot handle being achwad tafadhali stop with the lies.Marriage is just a certificate with implied status most often fake status.It does not complete or define you .It just gives relatives and friends something to talk about Pick yourself up and move on do it for your kids who unlike you hopefully will not define their lives through their looser father.You cannot change a man or train him like a dog on the other hand there really is no substitute for low IQ that is why procreation is discouraged among certain groups of people.
Kim is a Faithful and Wise…
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In reply to Misery loves company.You… by Guest (not verified)
Kim is a Faithful and Wise woman who has Refused to Jump around just because her Husband jumped around. She is Praying🙏 him Back because she still Loves him. And she seems to have witnessed some Foolish🤪😜🤒🥵😝🤩🥳 women Jump from Frying pans to Fire in the name of Revenge or Payback. God Bless Her.🙏
The good book says you can…
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The good book says you can divorce if your spouse commit adultery. How many people have died of AIDS because the stayed with their unfaithful spouses? Kiura ruga do not be stupid.
@ Kenya,are you aware that…
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In reply to The good book says you can… by Kenya (not verified)
@ Kenya,are you aware that there are some sexless marriages? And those who have been married for along time will tell you that sex takes a nose dive after the honey moon is over.
The good book says that adultery is agood ground for divorce as opposed to merely stating that we are incompatible.In other words if you chose to leave your spouse adultery is agood reason,but you dont have to leave.And it makes great sense not to leave if you had put all your eggs in one basket.So I agree with this lady,stay if you can ladies.
Marriage is more than just sex.Yes I understand that adultery is being unfaithful,so is lying,and hiding your true income.
I personally think that its unrealistic for couples to have sex with only one person for as long as they are married.Can you magine marrying at 20,and having sex with only your wife for 50 years...check COOLIDGE effect,and let me know what you think.
lastly,if you have an affair with a woman whom you later marry as your second wife, is that cheating,or "premarital sex"?In other words,when is it cheating? Is it when your wife catches you,or when you break the marriage vows,even without anybody knowing,that is except the one you are cheating with?
Ladies dont leave just because he dipped into another women,but meets 99% of your needs.But make sure you have a well chiselled shamba boy employed to even the score.
@maxiley - your wife will…
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In reply to @ Kenya,are you aware that… by Maxiley (not verified)
@maxiley - your wife will surely keep a close eye on you after she reads your swing attitude in marriage. Hope you can keep it hot enough in that bedroom to avoid Fooling around with the chic next door! Mama atachapa wewe na Mwiko - jameni!!
Hahaha she has nothing to…
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In reply to @maxiley - your wife will… by Ciro (not verified)
Hahaha she has nothing to worry about.
She should be worried about…
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In reply to Hahaha she has nothing to… by Maxiley (not verified)
She should be worried about your attitude toward cheating! You are one experienced dude in cheating since you can’t handle eating from the same pot for long!
How does he meet 99% of the…
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In reply to @ Kenya,are you aware that… by Maxiley (not verified)
How does he meet 99% of the needs when he can’t provide sex which accounts for 88% of the needs? I refuse to use those other tools when the tool I need most is just helplessly walking around like a weak frog!
Only a whore will want to…
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In reply to How does he meet 99% of the… by Betty (not verified)
Only a whore will want to sleep with a married man. but it is for money in whatever form. women leave cheating husbands if your husband is a harlot let him loose and go and live your life. Most of leave him for the sake of children . an unhappy marriage is a sad life and children get affected . children are not stupid they feel they see and they suffer . @ Loise is a harlot and that is why she want you to stay as the maid for him and he can go whoring and bring you deceases say no to cheating husband run very fast my friend unless you don't care - IT HAS TO BE YOUR DECISION , YOUR CHOICE NO AKA LOISE THE HARLOT
Loise.. Hush hush now, you…
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In reply to Only a whore will want to… by Loise (not verified)
Loise.. Hush hush now, you are a harsh judge. Look around, what do you see? Most everyone is broken by childhood experience. Even you. Calm down!
Apparently Maxiley and…
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In reply to @ Kenya,are you aware that… by Maxiley (not verified)
Apparently Maxiley and Louise should hook up and continue with their wayward life in marriage - Batman and Robin kind of life! Talk about being loose @maxiley! What happened to a life long commitment in marriage? Hope you are not dipping elsewhere in your marriage @maxiley!
@ Akinyi, you have nothing…
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In reply to Apparently Maxiley and… by Akinyi (not verified)
@ Akinyi, you have nothing to worry if your marriage if "perfect".I dont see anything in my post that indicates that Iam loose,please show it to me.
If you read carefully, Iam talking about encouraging women to stay in their marriages.
@ Akinyi do you really…
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In reply to Apparently Maxiley and… by Akinyi (not verified)
@ Akinyi do you really expect one person to meet all your needs in your household? Max is right. In fact you are supporting Maxiley when he says that women should stay.And that's life long commitment.
Ok @maxiley - Loise divorce…
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In reply to @ Kenya,are you aware that… by Maxiley (not verified)
Ok @maxiley - Loise divorce is now final if you can handle raising her two kids while you become the veterinary officer of all the flaundering women in your neighborhood! Loise will just be fine with your loose morals as long as you come home to sleep! Your view of marriage need to be closely investigated by Dr Ruth!
Someone said here that …
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In reply to @ Kenya,are you aware that… by Maxiley (not verified)
Someone said here that “misery loves company”! @maxiley - Delta airlines offer direct flights from Florida to Kenya! Harp on that flight and go take care of business with Loise - and yes 👍- birds of a feather fly together! Loise would love to have your mackintosh!
@maxiley - did you have to…
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In reply to @ Kenya,are you aware that… by Maxiley (not verified)
@maxiley - did you have to write a whole Chinua Achembe’s Novel here to encourage cheating in marriage? Where is your self esteem, morals and pride @maxiley!?
@ Nkechi,there is a sequel…
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In reply to @maxiley - did you have to… by Nkechi (not verified)
@ Nkechi,there is a sequel to this novel with my self esteem,morals,and pride. Stay tuned.
What is the seque? @cheka…
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In reply to @ Nkechi,there is a sequel… by Cheka (not verified)
What is the seque? @cheka and @maxiley terrorising other men’s wives in the wee hours of the night while the husbands are busy doing the night shift work to bring bacon to the kids? You two are huge jokers! I’m surprised your heads have not yet been decapitated with your trousers down to your knees!
Wow, you dirty bustard …
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In reply to @ Kenya,are you aware that… by Maxiley (not verified)
Wow, you dirty bustard @maxiley! How many women do you want? Hope you dress that “small thing” down when you go “dipping” as you so leisurely call it.
Ohaha, I did not anticipate…
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In reply to Wow, you dirty bustard … by Wangeci (not verified)
Ohaha, I did not anticipate this condemnation.You guys, Iam not encouraging separation or divorce.I doubt if anyone reading my post will file for divorce.
Come fellows, all Iam saying is that I agree that afling should not be the deal breaker of a marriage.And Iam pretty sure that not all marriages where a hubby cheated ends in divorce. We are talking about adults who know what they are doing. If you dont know what you are doing then you should not get married just because people do it.Well, I wonder how many of you who are attacking me have strayed...
Actually,its big.
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In reply to Wow, you dirty bustard … by Wangeci (not verified)
Actually,its big.
Is @maxiley a man woman or…
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In reply to Actually,its big. by Maxiley (not verified)
Is @maxiley a man woman or trans? She's a liberal lion evidently
@maxiley there is no…
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In reply to @ Kenya,are you aware that… by Maxiley (not verified)
@maxiley there is no difference between one man and another. if your wife or husband goes for another partner means you are not good enough. so leave him/her - good ridance - you can be single and live a fulfilled life
Nothing fulfilling about the…
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In reply to @maxiley there is no… by Loise (not verified)
Nothing fulfilling about the single life @Louse! Got to have someone to scratch me down yonder; you know!!
Word! Totally agree with…
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In reply to @ Kenya,are you aware that… by Maxiley (not verified)
Word! Totally agree with your sentiments. Yap I've said it... Mezeni wembe!! You pretenders waiting to shame others tutapatana huko huko..
This issue affects both men and women. Sexless marriages. It's alive and well and the partner who gets neglected is shamed. Ah, we are all sinning go sit down somewhere in a corner and shush judgy mcJudgies😂
She expressed her opinion…
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She expressed her opinion who said ur opinion is right . Guest your interpretation is she cannot handle being left.
It's a new generation where…
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It's a new generation where women cheat just as much as men. What's her advice for the men?
Saddest generation of all…
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In reply to It's a new generation where… by Vic (not verified)
Saddest generation of all time. They do exactly what men do and more. Including going after men and all dirty stuff. Western evilization and more. Super liberals of now. God have mercy
Her advice for men is simply…
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In reply to It's a new generation where… by Vic (not verified)
Her advice for men is simply that just let your wife be whacked by the guy next door as you watch soap opera on TV in his living room!
Yeah rite idiot, why did u…
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Yeah rite idiot, why did u not stick with ur dude thru bad n good days.
This is how you know her…
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This is how you know her self esteem been long gone!She must find counselling and therapy before damage is done!
... things are elephant when…
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... things are elephant when a mother of someone has lost her self... herself esteem.. her pride.. and her mind, to this extent. Who told women they have to get "married"? There's lotsa life without marriage, and there's lotsa life after marriage. Only doormats stay.
@ Justme, is it true that…
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In reply to ... things are elephant when… by JustMe (not verified)
@ Justme, is it true that marriage is a prison for most women?
She's talented in music but…
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She's talented in music but not a smart woman. Terrible advise from a woman.
Loose - and how do you…
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Loose - and how do you handle a cheating husband? Put a rope on his left leg and tie him to the bed post? Your psychological advise is quite out of the norm! I find it quite weird indeed!!
i Agree with Her 100%, this…
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i Agree with Her 100%, this is nothing but real talk, Most kenyans cant handle real talk.
@ Soyna,I guess me and you…
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In reply to i Agree with Her 100%, this… by Soyna (not verified)
@ Soyna,I guess me and you are birds of the same feathers. My position is that married people should not stray,but many do.Each case should be judged on its own merit.Some will stay,and some will not.Nothing new here.Iam not telling anybody to stray.The issue is,what happens when one strays.Stay or flee is the question.
Did you say most Kenyans can…
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In reply to i Agree with Her 100%, this… by Soyna (not verified)
Did you say most Kenyans can’t handle the real talk? What is the real talk here? Cheating or staying together after cheating?
@Loise Kim you are the one…
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@Loise Kim you are the one cheating of our husbands so you want us to accept . have to regroup something is wrong in your head woman. ( Having affairs means spending family man on whores ) no decent woman will do what you suggest and you are one of the whores. period
Stupid of Kenyans I have…
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Stupid of Kenyans I have been in Florida 25yrd and bru western culture of divorce is really hitting Kenya like cobid my simple advice if you have divorce blood in u for the sake of the kids just don't tie the note its the kids who get hurt.
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