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Kenyan in the US Denied Access to His Son By Former Girlfriend’s Mother Despite Court Order

Kenyan in the US Denied Access to His Son By Former Girlfriend’s Mother Despite Court Order

A Kenyan man living in the US is embroiled in a tussle with his former girlfriend’s mother, who has denied him access to his two-year-old son.
 
Peter Njoroge Gathiaka accuses the boy’s grandmother Hellen Waitherero Mubea of disregarding a court order allowing him to visit and bond with his son.

In an interview with a local news outlet, Njoroge said he met his former girlfriend Joan Wambui and helped her emigrate to the US where they started a relationship that led to the birth of their son in December 2018.

When the two traveled to Kenya to visit and introduce the baby to their parents, Njoroge says Joan and her mother Hellen executed a well-thought-out plan to exclude him from his life without his knowledge.

Njoroge went back to the US and left his son in Kenya with his mother but was shocked to learn that Joan also returned to the US in December 2019 and left the baby under the care of Hellen, a headteacher at a Kiambu school.

Joan and her mother have allegedly been demanding Sh75,000 in monthly child upkeep from Njoroge after he broke up with her when he learned that she was irresponsible.

Njoroge says he last saw his son on his first birthday in December 2019 when he delivered him a birthday cake.

On August 6th, Kiambu Senior Resident Magistrate Wilson Rading ordered Njoroge be granted access to his son at a mutually agreed venue between Friday 10:00 am and Monday 10:00 am but Hellen allegedly fled with the boy to an unknown location.

“I was informed by neighbors and security guards that Waitherero hurriedly came home and left with my son to an unknown location. We have sought the help of local police officers in tracing them but have been unsuccessful,” said Njoroge.

Njoroge has moved back to the court for further directions.

Comments

Mundumugo (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 01:49am

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Children, despite what you might believe, need their fathers and fathers need their children. Is it so hard for you to believe he wants to share in his child's life in every way? They need to establish some form of joint custody so the child benefits from having both parents in their life.

Lazina (not verified)     Fri, 08/13/2021 @ 08:06am

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The mother (I did not say the lone mother-in-law because she is immaterial in this case) should provide a conducive environment for Njoroge to support his son!

That is what the man is fighting for - like it or not! He is also entitled to visit with his son if he is expected to provide financial support! The mother and the father should meet in a common place so that Njoroge can also bond with the son! Mambo ya Vichoro choro tuache Kando.

Is that clear now @chokola?

Sifuna (not verified)     Thu, 08/12/2021 @ 04:27pm

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Weee wewe @akinyi! Wacha maneno mingi! @kibe alisema yuko na vifaranga wawili! Pengine na bibi pia! Do you want to be a home wrecker? I know polygamy is also an option but si wewe utafute Kijana mwingine?

Mundumugo (not verified)     Fri, 08/13/2021 @ 09:29am

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If @Kibe is single, Akinyi is free to pursue furthermore @Kamau is intrigued. Further down, Mary has piqued someone's interest. There was a story in these pages picked up from the Standard about diaspora men and women not being on the same page. Kweli that was upuzi mtupu. Kamau, Akinyi sounds like a well bred, vibrant and adventurous young lady. Probably likes them tall intellectually and physically fit, down for whatever kind of men.

Mkenya halisi (not verified)     Tue, 08/10/2021 @ 05:30pm

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Just don’t pay a dime if the baby is in kenya n u cannot access him??If u go to family court in usa n price u have bin sending the monies to the Bitch n the baby is in kenya she will b told to refund u the monies.Bro if yr wife denies u to access yr children just forget them n move on otherwise utakufa namastress zako.Get another lady n start producing babies n forget the one in kenya n don’t send any dime my bratha.

Williams (not verified)     Thu, 08/12/2021 @ 04:33pm

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Well, well, well!! I hate to admit it but I will join this ongoing “me-too” for men! We are not seeking sympathy but we are telling the world how these Kenyan women treat us - a little more like some forsaken bustards!! I feel good now for opening up to fight for myself!

Abato (not verified)     Tue, 08/10/2021 @ 06:09pm

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He thought it's a great idea leaving a family he created behind to search greener pastures? Seems like a self induced situation.

KK (not verified)     Tue, 08/10/2021 @ 06:16pm

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Njoroge, mistake number one was bringing a woman to the US from Kenya. You should never do that. You helped an opportunist migrate and she took advantage. Good thing she didn’t take you to court and make you pay child support.

Mary (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 08:26am

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Yep one very risky move.” Ati wasichana wa US ni vichwa ngumu let me go get an innocent one from Kenya. “Nope. Doesnt work like that. If you are in the US, get yourself a woman you are in the same page with within the US

Wario (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 05:11pm

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Well @mary! I tend to agree with your assertion but the problem is the Kenyan women in the US are all drunkards and wants to wear trousers up to the nose on men!

They only want to have sex on top of the men and nothing more than that! And again those women in the US want to keep a man impoverished by consuming every bit of the money a man makes while depositing all their money!

I will stay with my kamuzungu!! At least they don’t yell day and night and are fun to have in bed!

What kind of nonsense is that @mary?

Mynameis (not verified)     Thu, 08/12/2021 @ 10:57am

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It says a lot about your character and where you hang out if you only meet Kenyan drunk women and money grabbers-must be your character that attracts such low lives. I have met quite many and they do not fall under this stupid generalization most men keep speaking of and I have met many Kikuyu women who are not money grabbers. The comments here from some folks tells a lot who they are attracting in their lives. I usually do not meet these characters where I chose to spend my social life. Food for thought @mla chake!

Mynameis (not verified)     Thu, 08/12/2021 @ 10:59am

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Ati Kamuzungu, you meant white trash low life whites .... waoh if your go to is a white person, then you are as low as those Kenyan women you are bashing here . Hiyo ngozi inanuka ngoja afike 40 years and/or you are one of those with OBESE ones , sura mbaya type if their fellow White men gave up on
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Wario (not verified)     Thu, 08/12/2021 @ 02:10pm

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Wacha Kelele wewe Kama punda huko musituni! You are probably a drunkard like those you are defending! You are the last dog to tell me where I need to go to get a social life! As for my dame, you have no business telling me the size I need to date!

However, she is 5’8”, slender @112 lbs, nicely rounded, well educated with a background in civil engineering and holds a very well paying job!

And how about you with your Kenyan women gold diggers?

Odour (not verified)     Fri, 08/13/2021 @ 10:56am

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@mynameis - the brothers who hang out with white women get the finest among the pack! I ain’t seen a brother holding on to an ugly while girl! As a matter of fact, the white boys are as jealous as you are describing a woman you have not seen. They even ask their women, “what do you see in this bigger boy”? Now your jealous has consumed you to a point you have turned out very bitter! The Kenyan guys are increasingly dating white women because you (if you are a Kenyan woman) have failed them with your ugly behavior. White chics do not play the games to you play in a relationship! They are straight forward and no shenanigans! Wake up woman!!

Nyina wa Raila (not verified)     Tue, 08/10/2021 @ 07:21pm

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“He was shocked to learn that his girlfriend had returned to the USA” . Sounds like your plans were to leave her but she was wiser.

Njoki (not verified)     Tue, 08/10/2021 @ 09:22pm

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I’m not surprised that you would make such a biased assumption simply because you are an old woman! Did you take a minute to think maybe she went back to Kenya because she was pregnant and couldn’t work to help out with the bills, etc!

Again giving birth in America is expensive compared to the cost in Kenya! There is no wisdom in her returning back to the US with proper communication and coordination with Njoroge!

This kind of a woman make all the Kenyan women in the US look bad! No wonder Kenyan men are now running away from us very fast as we age without life partners or even love!

Edgar (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 05:20pm

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Please repeat what you just said again! Mostly the kikuyu women are too arrogant and they make men run away fast - Ati mbeca kila saa….

I have dated four very beautiful kikuyu women but the demands made me run away fast! It is like buying an old Mercedes Benz when you are just making $10 an hour!!

Sukari (not verified)     Thu, 08/12/2021 @ 09:55am

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Aki Edgar, mimi ni mkiuk lakini hiyo yako ni kali! Ati akin to buying an old Mercedes when one is earning only £10? Ngai! Hiyo shade....nimecheka sana, lakini dare I say you have been mixing with the wrong ones, mainly the ones perhaps located along a certain road in NRB? Ama those glorified ones masquerading as slay queens?

Edgar (not verified)     Thu, 08/12/2021 @ 02:19pm

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I mean, anyone can buy an old Benz! But the cost of fixing that old Benz is huge! I like the kiuk chics but I also do not like being broke all the time trying to keep up with the high maintenance cost being pushed to live like the rich and famous kind of life!

I’m just being honest sababu every kikuyu dame I meet is highly expensive!!!!

Sifuna (not verified)     Thu, 08/12/2021 @ 04:21pm

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Kweli @sukari - these days it is hard for a guy to afford a woman, no matter which tribe, if you have shallow pockets!

But it’s the first time I have heard a dude comparing a woman with an old Mercedes Benz which sucks all the money in doing repairs!

Huyu rafiki hapa amenichekeza machoziii…! Surely we need these kind of funny stories to keep life going! Surely @Edgar can really tell good women stories! I have laughed so hard Macy zinauma sana!!!

Lazina (not verified)     Fri, 08/13/2021 @ 07:57am

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@namemeis - well, @edgar is speaking his story with four different kikuyu women who turned out to be highly expensive as “having an old Mercedes Benz car” that gambles all the money getting repaired at the the Autobahn shop!

He did not say that kikuyu women were bad! He just said they are unrealistic and greedy! He only said they are quite material beings. Most of them want a man to flip the c oh st if everything while “their” money is locked up in a bank account. He is saying what to him with 4 solid kikuyu women.

As you know, we are all living in a material world but love should not lender a man broke! You can expect a man to live beyond his means and expect him to function well in debts! @edgar just run away to save the little money “Wanjiru” couldn’t put her hands on….

The kikuyu sisters should work hand in hand in contributing to the highly expensive lifestyle they want a man to provide. Uschukie a man who is narrating his experience!

Gatheca (not verified)     Tue, 08/10/2021 @ 09:03pm

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@njoroge - hawa wake wa kiambu! Wemecunua Maithili ni Mbaka - eee - ni mbeca, mbeca, mbeca ile ile tu! You should never fall in love with a Kenyan woman and then end up sponsoring her to the the USA the land of gossip, rummours, jealousy, etc!

Why would you marry a woman from Kenya while already in the USA? Wazungu niwengi huko, and they love black brothers!

Forget the whole saga and start a new life! The boy will come looking for you when time is ripe! You are trying too hard Njoroge to deal with a lunatic kiambu mother in law! As a matter of fact, you should not have to talk to an illiterate animal in the mother in law!

Wewe Njoroge tafuta another beautiful one and forget your takataka that is now married by your nana-in-law! It is time to play some hard ball!

Kkk (not verified)     Tue, 08/10/2021 @ 09:47pm

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Why name and names and profession. The child is a us citizen and if you meant to get him back you can. Just contact social services and get the advice of full custody. You can become a full time parent and she can be the visitor but if you are a party boy who want to see the child at your leisure the child is better off wherever he is. Some stories are better if kept private.

Christine (not verified)     Tue, 08/10/2021 @ 10:11pm

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Here is the deal to the Kenyan men abroad! Going back to Kenya to get a shangi’s ignorant girl to marry will not for you! As a matter of fact, it is a much bigger problem than you may think.

That woman has no much experience in life! When she gets abroad, her eyes open up in the wrong way and she starts building her own life devoid of your meager efforts to survive and especially if you are not a US citizen.

Then all over a sadden shinda zinaingia and vituko begins. I would advise those guys going home to look for suitors to be very careful not to be conned. All the women see in you is dollar signs when you are coming from abroad! Why do you want to go pick up a girl that has never paid any bills or worked any where to know the basic mechanics of living? You guys beat me!

Why not take your time and search for a good woman that is already in the US and has lived through similar experiences with you? Some one who understands the value of work! Someone who has paid some bills, and someone who understands how to make personal decisions without always having to consult with the mother!

In Njoroge’s case, there is no relationship here! I would recommend you move on with life! However, you still got to support your child since you took a bath inside there without the rubber!

Lucy (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 05:54pm

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It is too late now @cheistine because your brother @ Njoroge is already hocked up of these tonics! All the woman’s family want is money! Possibly the girlfriend’s mother is now planning on retiring from her teaching job because Njoroge has offered her a new job in a grandson (source of constant monthly income) for the next 21 years! All the reason they are hogging on the baby! Don’t play with a kiambu old mother in law - ni biashara tu!

Kenyan men have become endangered species by those women they rush to collect on the streets of Nairobi! But I don’t think the diaspora men understand that as they are quickly running away from us! - just jumping from the cooking pan right into the fire.

And of course there are Kenyan women who are doing the same thing to men here in the US! I know several who are doing it to materially tie down a man. And it is working because men are greedy and the sight of pontoon make them go nuts!

You get what you get when you start rushing home to pick a country girl that has nothing in her pockets or in her head! It is what it is guys!

Kenny2 (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 10:27pm

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Not all girls from the village will be feminist,miss independent, argumentative know it all, some are realistic and ready to settle down, from my experience it has been good, Seven years together two kids and still counting.

Kimero (not verified)     Tue, 08/10/2021 @ 10:14pm

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Not sure when KenyaN men will learn Kenyan ladies to them kids is a business not family. 1 in 3 relationships there is something with courts. It’s not about family or kids any more . I have seen many many kids belonging to Kenyans living in the US being raised by court orders, child support, visitation rights and it’s pathetic that’s not how we were raised. There is no maturity when it comes to coparenting. My simple advise before you engage in any relationships either both of you agree more like a pre nup before kids., men protect yourselves from this economic vultures and only date someone doing better than you not the other way round.. this stories Sijui you helped someone and expect pity party brother utaumia..

Kimero (not verified)     Tue, 08/10/2021 @ 10:15pm

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Not sure when KenyaN men will learn Kenyan ladies to them kids is a business not family. 1 in 3 relationships there is something with courts. It’s not about family or kids any more . I have seen many many kids belonging to Kenyans living in the US being raised by court orders, child support, visitation rights and it’s pathetic that’s not how we were raised. There is no maturity when it comes to coparenting. My simple advise before you engage in any relationships either both of you agree more like a pre nup before kids., men protect yourselves from this economic vultures and only date someone doing better than you not the other way round.. this stories Sijui you helped someone and expect pity party brother utaumia..

Kimanzi (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 05:40pm

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Surely having a kid with a Kenyan woman is a huge business and especially if you are a man of means! That quick sex without condom is really expensive! Wrap up guys and don’t be getting stupidly in love! The definition of live have change; very completely!

You will produce a baby that you will only be Baba wa mkate by paying some hefty child support to some whoring idiot some place!

For the “Mather-in-laws - please butt off your daughter’s relationships!! Please you are a grown woman and should become a road side gold digging trash to a guy who is just trying to make it in life!

And for those women who are doing this shit - please cut it out! Don’t be a goddon gold digger when you can get your own freaking job to support your lazy ass!

Guys - you got to think seriously especially when CIKU just drops some g-string pants and shakes that bundi for you! It is very expensive guys and we keep on falling in these traps! All that glitters is not gold! Use your head wisely!!

SasaNini? (not verified)     Tue, 08/10/2021 @ 10:56pm

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How about abduction? Why waste time in a Kimabu court? The Kid is a US citizen, how he is not? Bring the case to US and you will save yourself a lot of migraine. She will also lose her chances of coming back to the US

Beste ya mkeny… (not verified)     Tue, 08/10/2021 @ 11:17pm

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Hapa sasa acha niwaambie vile kutaenda. Dame will hustle aget papers kamili then file for the mtoi. Hapo sasa ndio kitaumana kwa brathe wetu coz she will demand backpay support for aaaaaall those years. Advice to the guy is jipange vilivyo kama vile halisi usema coz if that happens, u ought to have options. Lastly dont ever ever katia dame hajawai ona babake in her life coz that's the kind of drama you end up dealing with!

Mundumugo (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 02:35pm

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The child already has papers. He was born in the US and is a citizen by birth. In fact that child needed a passport in order to fly and both parents had to be there. I'm no lawyer but I'm sure keeping a child who is a US citizen out of the US so that the other parent has no access is a crime. He needs to contact his local pd and report this as a kidnapping. If they find he has a case she could find herself in jail for a few years and her makaratasi will be torn up and she will be on a free flight to Kenya

Fowards (not verified)     Tue, 08/10/2021 @ 11:39pm

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Theres always two sides of the story. I hate it when men behave like babies and go out for sympathy. Chunga boma yako kijana.

Bwana Ukweli (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 12:49am

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Peter Njoroge, please do not fool people. My first question is, this baby was born in the U.S.A, how come you have not been able to get a court order to bring this kid back to the U.S by the U.S courts?. Why rush back to Kenya and bribe your way so that you can get a fake court order?. Remember you have been investigated by detectives in the U.S.A and the FBI for threatening your ex-wife. You were and still a threat to Joan and there is no way the U.S government will let you come close to her or even your kid.You have tried all tricks; threatening Joan's mum by bribing cops and storming Joan's home and threatening her family members. The family is taking these threats seriously and if anything would happen to any family member, know that you will be liable!. Continue with the threats but kindly know that a report has been made with the DCI.
Lastly, Joan has never asked for any child support from you. For transparency, please show evidence of any request for child support.
Joan is safe and the kid too. Get another girlfriend and get a life boy.

Musa (not verified)     Thu, 08/12/2021 @ 08:56am

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Is it the other side of the story or is a just a friend of Joan with some benefits talking!? Some benefits are very powerful! The benefits will make another man start hallucinating and diarrhea-ring from the mouth!

Mundumugo (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 03:06pm

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If you have actual info, post the restraining orders, arrest and conviction reports and let us judge for ourselves. Otherwise an investigation is just that and you're trying to dirty up the man's name to support your friend. False reports filed by vindictive women do also lead to investigations. If charges aren't filed, and no rulings are made they don't mean much. I say he needs to file a kidnapping report and let the woman reap what she decided to sow. Correct me if I'm wrong but I don't think the FBI investigates local matters like domestic violence allegations. They do investigate parental kidnapping on an international scale.

Mwananchi Mzalendo (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 04:33pm

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Peter Njoroge needs to tell the truth and nothing but the truth! We all know Joan relocated to the states on an immigrant visa aka greencard…..his story is full of lies 🙄. Free advice young man, get your shit together and stop whining like a toddler

Lucy (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 08:00pm

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Too much talking here! Could it be this @bwana is the new man in her life who is causing all the fighting among them?

Why not sit down, become adults and try to iron out the best way possible to bring up the little boy? Geezzzz! Every body is talking too much here like it is the end of the world!

Why is @bwana the one telling Njoroge all about the bad news? He is even telling him to get a new life and move on! I don’t get it!

Njora (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 09:55pm

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Can you sign a written agreement stating that Joan will not ask Njoroge for any child support money to confirm what you have said here?

Can you also sign a written statement indicating that you will provide all the necessary material support to the child as the new boyfriend to Joan!

Mary (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 08:37am

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People don’t understand that this women they go to get in Kenya will still be chanuliwad and will drop you like its its hot when they learn their rights. Then its so painful because the poor man will start counting the loss of bringing someone here and giving them makaratasi.

Wangamati (not verified)     Thu, 08/12/2021 @ 01:34am

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I agree! Boy! I sure do agree with you @mary! Ni Kama fisi - ka-village woman can scream at you until you start pissing red hot bloody urine - precisely on your damn pants! Count me out - been there, done that, got left broke, etc..

MOHANDAS (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 08:48am

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@Mkenya Halisi. I agree with you on this one.
Man needs to move on quickly otherwise he will waste his time, become frustrated and maybe even end up harming himself.
They want to milk you dry brother.watch your wallet. That's where they are aiming at.

Mkenya Mwenzako (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 09:17am

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Just go to family court in USA and state that your son is missing and your ex-girlfriend is uncooperative. She will be given 7 days to produce her and you can apply for full custody. Laws work here. I know. A daughter of a former DC in Kenya was given 7 days to return the kid to US.

Vivian (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 12:58pm

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Now a little boy has been caught between a rock and a hard place amongst 3 group up fools! Can we all get along?

MLACHAKE (not verified)     Wed, 08/11/2021 @ 07:03pm

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Yet another money hungry kikuyu woman ..... yes, Kenyan women are too greedy for money but kikuyu women take it to another level. Get involved with one at your own peril
NB: Some of the best & most well behaved ladies are Kikuyus but they are one in a hundred thousand. As for the rest, their brains think money 24/7

Wangamati (not verified)     Thu, 08/12/2021 @ 01:24am

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Please say it louder about the Kenyan women conning men, especially that really expensive model called the kikuyu women!

The last kikuyu woman I had swept my junk while I was on night shift making a few coins to bring some bread home. She took everything including my dirty unwashed underwear. She also took the dirty paper plates I used to eat ugali bila mboga the night before. Even she took the rats with her as well!

I’m now recovering slowly but it has been painful! The sound of a kikuyu woman makes me vomit; literally! Luckily, I wore my condoms though she attempted to burst them so she can get pregnant! I surely feel the pain for Njoroge!

Mynameis (not verified)     Thu, 08/12/2021 @ 04:03am

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And the other non kikuyus are so pure and great. bure comment and generalization ugh. Mla chake you come across like an intelligent guy but the general comments and your hate of kyuk women is so weird , just because one wronged you you gotta hate on all.

Mynameis (not verified)     Sat, 08/14/2021 @ 08:02am

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I'm not that shallow minded and I'm not Kikuyu FYI plus I do not hang out with Kikuyu men thieves and conmen and general uncouth crass Kikuyu men - how do you feel being generalized like that ....

LAli (not verified)     Sat, 08/14/2021 @ 10:21pm

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Have you taken your psycho medicines lately @mynameis?? Please see a lunatic treating doctor because you sound like a maize comb has been pushed up your smelly ass! Will you see a doctor to get evaluated in your huge water Mellon head?

Andrew (not verified)     Sat, 08/14/2021 @ 10:26pm

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No kikuyu man would want your dirty stupid you! You trying to find the force of gravity to support yourself but you still got ways to go! Kikuyu men do not deal with fat takataka Kama wewe donkey!

Wario (not verified)     Sat, 08/14/2021 @ 10:39pm

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Here comes the shithead talking carca again! You are even ashamed to use a normal human being’s name! “Mynameis crap dudu!!! Do you think you will impress any body by saying you ain’t a kikuyu woman!? No kikuyu men would want you! And if one did talk to you, it will be a huge favor of a life time!! Step down the high horse fool!

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