Court Rejects 40-Year-Old Kenyan Woman's Bid to Divorce 80-Year-Old Husband for a Young and Energetic Herdsman

Court Rejects 40-Year-Old Kenyan Woman's Bid to Divorce 80-Year-Old Husband for a Young and Energetic Herdsman

A Kadhi’s court in Isiolo has dismissed a 40-year-old woman’s bid to divorce her 80-year-old husband and settle with a younger and energetic herdsman.

The petitioner identified in court via abbreviation H.H.A accused her husband of neglecting his spousal and fatherly duties.

But her husband abbreviated as I.M.I told the court that H.H.A left their matrimonial home to cohabit with the herdsman and is pregnant with his child.

The court was told that H.H.A and I.M.I have been married for 30 years and have ten children together. 

The 80-year-old man said H.H.A walked out of their marriage and made away with his Sh700,000 and 30 goats. H.H.A told the court that she preferred a younger, more energetic, and handsome young man.

In his ruling, Senior Principal Magistrate Abdulhaman Athman dismissed the divorce petition, stating that the courts should not be used to promote immorality.

“The petitioner came to court with unclean hands. She admitted adultery and infidelity…she no longer loves her husband and would wish to live with a younger, energetic and handsome young man and wishes the court to assist her in her endeavor.”

“The petition for divorce fails…the petitioner is the respondent’s legal wife. She is hereby prohibited from cohabiting with another man other than her husband,” Athman ruled.

Given that she is pregnant, the court prohibited her from practicing conjugal rights with her husband until she gives birth.

The court further ruled that I.M.I is not biologically or legally responsible for the unborn child, stating that “the child shall be declared as the mother’s child only.”

 

Comments

Mkenya (not verified)     Mon, 03/29/2021 @ 11:45am

So it's moral for the old man to have married her when she was 10yrs old while he was 50??! The lady is catching up on lost time, he can't keep up with her, he stole 30 years from her, she deserves to be happy & fulfilled lol

Maxiley (not verified)     Mon, 03/29/2021 @ 02:06pm

Mohammad the Prophet is the model for Muslims to follow. He married a 6 year old,and waited till she was 9 years to consummate the marriage.So my understanding is that it's ok for a man to marry awoman and have sex with her so long as she is menstruating.
As you can see, this"rule" disadvantages young girls who are not mature enough both mentally,and physically.No wonder the court is saying that allowing her to go with her lover is encouraging morality.I guess if she stays she is a good muslim woman.
I always say, question, question,and question what does not make sense.And alot of religious beliefs just dont make sense.Try science back reasoning for your decision making.

Guest (not verified)     Mon, 03/29/2021 @ 08:29pm

Since when did marriage become a forced union.There is something called irreconcilable differences .Change religions and trying filing as a Christian or even atheist or just walk out on the marriage.Is divorce not about equitable sharing of joint property and not a question of if divorce should take place.Marriage cannot be forced furthermore it is a mere piece of paper

Maxiley (not verified)     Tue, 03/30/2021 @ 12:07pm

In reply to by Guest (not verified)

@ Guest, marriage is a social construct. The so called big religions, Christianity,and Islam are new,in relations to evolution of human societies.Further back, we lived like animals,and for survival,we improved our standard of living so to speak.This was necessary in order to survive.Its called adaptation to the environment.Marriage was no exception. Resources we hard to come by,and man did not want to "waste" on offspring that he did not farther.So marriage was created.
First forward to today.Man short of paternity testing via DNA,there is no way man can prove"fatherhood".Mama will always be mama.So till all really comes down to men controlling women.That's what marriage is.And when awoman in perceived to be out of control,the man has to find a way to restrain her.One way of doing that is controlling the means of survival/resources.
Read an interesting statistics the other day- Women control only 3% of world resources.Men control 97% so there will never be equitable sharing,until the social equilibrium pivots to the center.And that's why these gender equality wars are being fought world over. We will have abetter society when equal treatment is achieved,even if not fully...

Motofire (not verified)     Tue, 03/30/2021 @ 09:23pm

I'm anti feminism, me2 but this sharia law is 2 extreme for me. She eloped with a 10 year old. I'm totally against that child marriage sponsored by moha. Kenya is secular state and sharia law must be outlawed.

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